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A new munch in NYC: “Dom Women/Masculine Sub Men First Munch” on Friday at 7:30pm at Pot Luck Asian Cuisine, 255 W 26th St. They’ll be going on to the TES Papparazzo Party across the street at Paddles afterward. Saturday night check out the Submit Party for Women and Trans in Park Slope, Brooklyn. Call [...]

This is a repost of something I wrote November 2006. Seems fitting today. I’m feeling edgy today. Restless, frustrated, angry. A bit unhinged. I need something to unwind me- relax me. Bring me down. The itch that needs scratching.
Emotional pain, heartbreak. He is gone, and I don’t know if I’m sad [...]

Everyone is invited on Saturday, July 31st for a four hour long Hands-On, Rope Bondage Intensive at Play House in Baltimore with Lolita Wolf. This Rope Intensive is Hands-On and limited to 12 people and will begin promptly at 1pm with a lunch break. Rope Bondage Four Hour Intensive There is nothing more classic than [...]

The past month has been pretty tough. My husband has moved out and there has been a lot of emotional struggle going on. Just a little over a month ago- everything in my life was manageable. Today it seems very much less so. Even Sir and I are struggling to make it through this uneasy [...]

So with Mouse visiting, we were able to have lots of girl sex. Recently I got a new dildo… Randy from Vixen Creations. I was pretty excited to introduce Randy to Mouse as I knew she would love him as much as I do.
But what I really needed some versatility to go with Randy. I [...]

Jefferson on the Psychotherapist’s couch. I was surprised that he mentioned me. Vi’s library has its own website. Franklin Veaux‘s great chart for Non-Monogamy. Dan Savage writes about kink entrepreneurs in The Stranger. Alternet‘s article on how kink is becoming mainstream and accepted. Related posts Zip zip (0) You’re soaking in it (0) You’re as [...]

SMOOTH HOTEL features Barbara Nitke‘s provocative photographs of chic people misbehaving in anonymous hotel settings. The photography series is in collaboration with New York fashion designers Tom and Linda Platt. You can see it at 69 Gansevoort Street, NYC through August 22, 2010. Related posts Barbara Nitke’s Smooth Hotel (2) Barbara Nitke’s Opening (1) “Modified [...]

Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open [...]

There’s a new group in town call NYC Submissive Society. Their first monthly meeting is with guest host Eric Pride on Thursday. Also Thursday night is Lip Service, a pansexual kissing and cocktails party. On Friday night, submissive women are invited to preview and critique a new movie, Absolute Trust. 6pm at the LGBT Center. [...]

On Friday night I went to Mata Hari Madness, a benefit for the Desiree Alliance. I had the hottest date at the event: Witti Repartee. I also got dressed up. We enjoyed the show. I especially loved the performance by Madison Young and Lookout. Once again, I got lucky and won the best raffle prize! [...]