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Sitting Curbside

November 28, 2011 By Galit

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My family’s steps are brisk, much like this night. We’re at “Daddy’s Downtown” for the light parade.

I’m wrapped in deep wisps of perfume and hot chocolate, mittens and scarves, frozen toes and “I can’t believe it just snowed!” Heels click and frost whispers.

I pause, attempting to capture it all.

Kayli twirls. With strong steps and flying hair, she captures me. Her nubilly gloved fingers lace my own bare ones.

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She cranes, “That building is so BIG. It makes me feel so SMALL. But in the good way.” She explains.

I know exactly what she means.

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We’re out past dark and dinner and whining.

They sip at hot chocolate and marvel at gingerbread and ask for sparklers and it feels good -so, so very good- to say yes to each and every one of these heart wants.

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I settle between my heartstrings.

The curbside is cool beneath me. My fingertips and my lap stay cool as well. No one needs holding or caring or tending right now.

I breathe in BeSide rather than Entwined Around. And I breathe out being okay with This Spot.

Oh, how I adore this photo. I had time to curl and gloss and fuss and choose. And yes, I’m drawn to the way these fleeting gifts of time are captured here.

But also -mostly- I see the the quiet glow around really and truly fitting into This New Spot.

It’s mine.

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The sweetness of the hot chocolate and the glitter of the sparklers and the promise of the parade lose their hold, and they tire of waiting.

One by one they circle me. I stay in this New Mothering Spot and capture them.

Because like This Moment and This Spot, they too, are Mine.

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42 Comments

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  1. spacer wendy @ mama one to three says:
    November 28, 2011 at 9:11 pm

    i love your ability to draw your reader in with all her senses. we are truly in each moment with you, physically and emotionally. that is what I love about good writing. that is all. spacer

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  2. spacer Andrea says:
    November 28, 2011 at 9:18 pm

    Wonderful. Every time.

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  3. spacer christine says:
    November 28, 2011 at 10:33 pm

    As always, beautiful.

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  4. spacer tracy@sellabitmum says:
    November 28, 2011 at 11:00 pm

    Beautiful my friend. Also, nothing beats the Holidazzle. I saw it twice this weekend. lol

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  5. spacer Kimberly says:
    November 28, 2011 at 11:40 pm

    So beautifully written.

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  6. spacer Alison@Mama Wants This says:
    November 28, 2011 at 11:54 pm

    You always make me feel so present in your moments. Gorgeous!

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  7. spacer jane@flightplatformliving says:
    November 28, 2011 at 11:58 pm

    i simply love the way you write! you capture memories like poetryx

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  8. spacer Jessica says:
    November 29, 2011 at 1:02 am

    You have the greatest ability to turn small moments into something so special with your words.

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  9. spacer Dina @30ish Mama says:
    November 29, 2011 at 1:45 am

    I always feel like I am tagging along with your family when I read about the moments you describe. But what I love most about reading these snippets of life is how they always remind me to slow down and take notice of the precious moments in the everyday. And I thank you for that.

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  10. spacer Barbara says:
    November 29, 2011 at 5:50 am

    I love how I always feel right where you are when I read your posts! Now I want hot chocolate….

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  11. spacer Varda (SquashedMom) says:
    November 29, 2011 at 6:11 am

    Just beautiful. Mothering is an ever evolving thing, isn’t it? Glad you’re in a sweet spot.

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  12. spacer Kimberly says:
    November 29, 2011 at 6:57 am

    You captured this moment so beautifully. Felt like I was there braving the chill 😉

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  13. spacer Ratz says:
    November 29, 2011 at 7:39 am

    You write so beautifully Galit… i am always awestruck when i read your posts… “I settle between my heartstrings.” what a beautiful, enriched, and fulfilling line.

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  14. spacer tayarra says:
    November 29, 2011 at 7:48 am

    The love in your heart and the way you express it is so inspiring. Beautiful moments. Beautiful memories!

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  15. spacer Nancy C says:
    November 29, 2011 at 8:06 am

    Good grief, lady. Your writing makes me feel like I’m wrapped in a soft blanket, every time.

    I, too, love the sensory details…those clicking heels, and especially that whispering frost.

    And doesn’t it feel good to say yes?

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  16. spacer angela says:
    November 29, 2011 at 8:07 am

    Beautiful! I am still in full on “need Mommy” mode, and I waver between looking forward to the moment you expressed with such poignancy and breaking down into tears about it spacer

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  17. spacer Kir says:
    November 29, 2011 at 8:12 am

    you beautiful soul with your whimsical words and visions of sugarplums….you transport me and fill my heart. I am so glad that I am lucky enough to read your thoughts and words. xoxoo

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  18. spacer Kathleen Basi says:
    November 29, 2011 at 8:19 am

    What a special memory! I love the night pictures, and all the little people bundled up.

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  19. spacer Sweaty says:
    November 29, 2011 at 9:07 am

    You’ve captured the moment so well, your words allowed me to feel the magic, wonder, and contentment you experienced. As a mother, I could relate to the sentiments you talked about… but for sure could never have put it as beautifully as you, dear Galit.

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  20. spacer By Word of Mouth Musings says:
    November 29, 2011 at 9:10 am

    you and your heartstrings …. they just tug on mine.
    Love always xxxx

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  21. spacer Missy | Literal Mom says:
    November 29, 2011 at 9:11 am

    You are such a good writer, Galit. Even though you’re writing about cold weather, this post just made me feel all warm inside because of the emotions. Well done.

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  22. spacer Jessie Powell says:
    November 29, 2011 at 9:59 am

    Sparklers? I’m intrigued. I think of those as a fourth of July thing. I really wish you had pictures of that! What a lovely verbal portrait of your family in a peaceful activity.

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  23. spacer debi9kids says:
    November 29, 2011 at 10:32 am

    this is just lovely and such a perfect night spacer
    (I love nights like that!)

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  24. spacer CJ says:
    November 29, 2011 at 11:18 am

    Oh, that looks like SO much fun! I love when you can just have fun and enjoy your family!

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  25. spacer JDaniel4's Mom says:
    November 29, 2011 at 12:47 pm

    What a wonderful moment! I love having my fingers laced in JDaniel’s.

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