Newcomers

-> Newcomers to the CP/corrective therapy scene

 

Are you new to the CP (corporal punishment) scene? Have you always had these kinds of fantasies but somehow never had a chance to act on them? You are not alone!

 

You can a testimonial left by one of the Newcomers after session with me.

 

It’s not unusual for people to spend years fantasising without taking the necessary steps. If you are reading this you have already taken the first step to live out your CP-related fantasies. Well done, I hope that soon you will go all the way and experience your very first CP/corrective therapy session.

 

I realise that as someone without any experience you probably have dozens of questions and worries running through your mind right now. Have a look at the Q&A section below and hopefully I can ease some of your worries right now.

 

 

Q: What if I don’t know if I will actually like it/how much I can take?

 

A: This is exactly what the first session is about – to discover if you like it when your CP fantasies become reality. You don’t have to know “how much you can take” – we will discover it together. First session is likely to differ significantly from a normal standard session. We will chat about different implements, how things work and then we will proceed to try different things out – it can all happen as slow or as fast as you want to help you stop feeling awkward and uneasy. I have the ability and understanding to help you fulfil and develop your own fantasies. You will be surprised how good it feels when they come true.

 

Q: Does it feel odd talking about or even thinking about THESE things?

 

A: I too remember how unnatural it felt at first, many years ago, to vocalise those thoughts. It’s not exactly an everyday conversation. But it helps to have it with someone, like me, who is used to conversing about those subjects. No worries, I have heard it all. I will quickly put you at ease allowing you to enjoy your first REAL experience.

 

Q: What if I am not sure what would I like to try out?

 

A: We can keep the first session down to an introductory session, where we discuss implements, and slowly progress to trying them out while having a fairly relaxed conversation. Or if you are feeling more adventurous from the beginning we could start with a basic school scene or a simple cruel boss scenario where you are being punished for wrong doing. If you have never done a roleplay before, I recommend keeping it simple for the first time so that it does not distract you.

 

Also there is also no need to jump straight into roleplay if you find the idea silly or unnatural. We can keep it somewhere in between the introductory session and a full-blown roleplay scenario and focus on the physical experience, talk our way through various implements and your fantasies.

 

The thing is we don’t have to script the session before we meet. We can always decide on the day what to try and how far to go with your very first experience.

 

Q: Are you experienced with newcomers?

 

A: I meet people with little or no experience with the CP scene on regular basis and have successfully introduced many of them to the pleasure and satisfaction of fulfilled CP-related fantasies. Everyone is different and looks for different experiences. Together we can find a way to unleash your fantasies. The venues I use, both in London and Newcastle, are designed for the purpose, immaculately clean and discreet.

 

Q: Is the CP session going to leave marks on your bottom?

 

A: It’s hard to answer that question, because everyone’s skin bruises differently. In most cases I can easily avoid leaving long-lasting bruises (more than 1 week), but you should be prepared that some marking might be visible for up to 48hours. The rule is simple: the more your bottom is used to the punishment, the less you will bruise.

 

If you absolutely can’t afford to have any bruising on your bottom please be VERY specific when mentioning it. Also, you should be aware that certain skin conditions and blood thinning medications, although possibly barely noticeable on day-to-day basis, can cause increased bruising.

 

Q: What about skin cuts?

 

A: A good and memorable session does not mean you need to be beaten so hard that your skin is cut. With good accuracy and proper implements it is possible to avoid cuts while (role)playing, even while playing on the so called hard level. I will NOT cut your skin. In fact, this is where I draw a line – do not offer very brutal judicial punishment scenes that by definition lead to broken skin.

 

Q: Can you do JUST hand spanking?

 

A: My hand is effective as a warm-up, but it is fairly small. I find it better to progress to other implements. If you want to stay over my knee, I can use a leather paddle or a wooden hairbrush. If you are definitely unsure about use of implements, we could have a session solely or largely based on hand spanking but you need to be aware this is going to be a limited experience for you (also, I’m unable to charge less for it – my fees are based on length of the session, not on the activities involved).

 

Q: I have this intense fantasy of you being in control. You are quite young, are you able to be completely in control?

 

A: Age has really not much to do with someone’s ability to arrange a high-quality CP/corrective therapy session and be in control. I’m very experienced and knowledgeable about the subject. Although I care about your fantasies and want to make sure they come true, once we start to do the (role)play I will be demanding and in total control of you and your body. It comes to me naturally.

 

Q: What sessions do you offer?

 

A: I offer CP, corrective therapy and discipline sessions, with or without roleplay scenarios. I also offer relaxation therapy sessions and sensual/erotic play. More information on Session With Me page.

 

 

If you think you are ready to acknowledge your needs and take the next step I await your email.