huffingtonpost:
They’re more likely to be seen in sexy clothing (25.8 percent to men at 4.7 percent) and more likely to be partially naked (23.6 percent to 7.4 percent).
Is it time to change that ratio?
Women Are Underrepresented, Oversexualized In Top Films: Study
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Our Bodies, Ourselves Turns 40
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‘Cosmo Girl’: How to Attract a Dude Using Crap Ladymag Advice
Ladyfriend Cristen Conger, of HowStuffWorks’ “Things Mom Never Told You” blog, has a LOL video up today about how to attract a dude—using the genius advice of esteemed ladymag Cosmopolitan. The short version:
1. Dangle footwear
2. Put shoulders forward
3. Lower chin & look up
4. Rub shoulders
Sounds totally super sexy, right? But here’s the rub: it turns out—get ready—this is a big pink load of BS. (And Cristen has the science to prove it!) Enjoy!
-jessica
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Tales from the Frontlines: ‘I Constantly Worry My Shirt’s Too Tight or My Skirt Too Short’
Today in reader submitted stories, from a 20-something woman working in Congress:
I’m in my first real job after college… surrounded by capable and powerful women. [But] I’m still judged largely on my appearance by both men and women. I’m constantly worrying that my shirt is too tight or my skirt is too short, and that no one will ever take me seriously if they see an inch of leg. I end up dressing like a librarian. I find that female colleagues are often the harshest critics.
Sometimes, I smile too much, and people mistake my bubbliness for a lack of intelligence. My male coworkers like to make jokes about me being stupid, which is ironic considering they also ask me to edit their work. I have stood up for myself before, but it often comes off as a little abrasive or — goodness, no — bitchy.
Coming from [college], the real world is a slap in the face.
Submit your own “Tales from the Frontlines” here.
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The S Word: Navigating Sexuality in the Workplace
A lot of readers of our piece (especially male) have become mildly obsessed with the quote we include wherein one of us was told to “use their sexuality” to get ahead. The question of sex, and sexuality, in the workplace is a tricky one. As one Newsweek commenter put it, “Women have internalized that the only way we can get ahead is to give head.” We don’t agree, but let’s try to unpack the S word a little.
The reality is that a woman’s appearance, her attractiveness, or, sure, her sexuality, can be a powerful tool. And there’s no question that men are affected by it. They just are. (As our favorite Newsweek commenter put it, “no matter how much I respect my female co-workers, I eventually think about putting my hands on their chest.”) Removing sex entirely from the workplace is an impossible proposition. As Nora Ephron told us, humans are sexual beings. “You simply can’t have it that 16 hours a day you have sexual feelings and for 8 hours you don’t.”
The problem is, when men hold all the power, that tool turns into a double-edged sword. On the one hand, catching a superior’s eye can mean more face time, opportunities to talk about your ideas, and so on. On the other, any subsequent promotions or success will be poisoned by self-doubt: was it because I deserved it or because my boss likes the way I look?
Once upon a time, working women hid all semblance of feminine attractiveness for purely this reason. But as young women, we balk at having to subvert our sexuality. Which is fine when we’re roaming the halls of the high school cafeteria, or out at happy hour, but when we’re hunched over our cubicles in a male-dominated workplace, its easy to spin into a paralyzing cycle of self-doubt.
So what do we do? Once there are really enough women at the top, these issues won’t matter so much. Our male boss can ogle us and his female counterpart can roll her eyes. But until then, what to do? Back to boxy “Working Girl” suits?
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Today in Douchey (But Kind of Amazing) Comments
From our Newsweek story on women and the workplace:
“The truth is no matter how much I respect my female co-workers I eventually think about putting my hands on their chest whenever I talk to them. I don’t think I’m alone here on this point. And female bosses, I constantly think about having sex with them.”
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