When your ex’s family stalks you via social media
We know that you're all about family - and you want your kids for the most part - to share in extended family activities. You've let us know - loud and clear - that relationships with extended family - particularly when your ex's family is involved - can cause heartache and emotional strain. Frankly, we never discussed how social media can make us vulnerable to unwanted contact from extended family. So, when this loyal reader shared her situation with us, we knew she could count on YOU for advice. Here's what this single mom - she's been through SO much ...
Is clutter an issue for you?
We're proud of our Singlemommyhood community. Our strength comes from putting our heads - and hearts - together to help one another. Lately, we've received an avalanche of messages disclosing your struggles with clutter. We understand how overwhelming managing your possessions can get, especially when you're in the midst of a life crisis or huge transition. Here's our perspective on what we've heard - so far - from YOU: Day to day responsibilities are overwhelming. The junk mail heaped on the kitchen table, the jumble of old newspapers and magazines, or those long dead houseplants - UGH! - on the kitchen window ...
When your toddler says the D word
Many of you grapple with how to answer questions about an absent dad. We've discussed various approaches, such as compiling a Daddy Book. And you've generously shared what secrets you keep (or not) from your kids about an absent parent. Frankly, however, we've never discussed how to respond when toddlers -- who are raised by solo or choice moms -- start the "daddy" conversation. Here's what a solo mom recently shared with us: "I dated a guy for three months, and right after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant. We tried to make it work, but the second ...
Can we talk about your bedroom?
We've talked a lot about the challenge of juggling parenting - and getting a (we mean sex) life. We get it! As these candid conversations unfold, we wonder how your parenting and private lives have melded - or not? Frankly, we're most curious about your bedroom. Some of you have told us that your bedroom is actually the family room. The kids climb into your bed to watch TV or eat a snack. Your walls are decorated with kid photos in tiny little frames, along with their artwork - oh, and that gorgeous shot of you and your ex. It's not ...
Should a tween decide the parenting time schedule?
Our conversations about co-parenting challenges highlight your commitment to doing what's right for your kids. You've taught us (and we're grateful) that co-parenting issues change as kids get older. Also, parents' relationship statuses change. Frankly, we've never talked about kids' roles in deciding parenting time schedules. So, when this conflicted single mom - who asked to remain anonymous - contacted us for help, we rushed to share her situation with you. Here's what's going on: This divorced mom's 12-year-old daughter has always split time between both parents' homes. But after this girl's dad got remarried, things changed. "My daughter doesn't really ...
Should this single mom file for child support?
Our conversations about child support - or lack of it - get some of us really riled up. Skyrocketing costs and a shaky job market make it tough to provide just the necessities - we get it. So, when a fellow single mom blogger - who prefers to remain anonymous - contacted us recently with a child support question, we shook our heads. We're not sure what's the best choice for the mom - so, we're turning to YOU for advice. Here's the story: "I broke up with my kids' father two years ago. We were engaged - not married," she ...
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When your ex’s family stalks you via social media
We know that you’re all about family – and you want your kids for the most part – to share in extended family activities. You’ve let us know – loud and clear – that relationships with extended family – particularly when your ex’s family is involved – can cause heartache and emotional strain. Frankly,... [Read more...]
Is clutter an issue for you?
We’re proud of our Singlemommyhood community. Our strength comes from putting our heads – and hearts – together to help one another. Lately, we’ve received an avalanche of messages disclosing your struggles with clutter. We understand how overwhelming managing your possessions can get, especially when you’re in... [Read more...]
When your toddler says the D word
Many of you grapple with how to answer questions about an absent dad. We’ve discussed various approaches, such as compiling a Daddy Book. And you’ve generously shared what secrets you keep (or not) from your kids about an absent parent. Frankly, however, we’ve never discussed how to respond when toddlers — who are raised by... [Read more...]
Can we talk about your bedroom?
We’ve talked a lot about the challenge of juggling parenting – and getting a (we mean sex) life. We get it! As these candid conversations unfold, we wonder how your parenting and private lives have melded – or not? Frankly, we’re most curious about your bedroom. Some of you have told us that your bedroom is actually the... [Read more...]
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