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We agonize over it, we hide from it, we even build walls and defenses against it, but the only time we ever defeat this bastard emotion is when we turn and face it. You cannot fight what you refuse to see.
Nov. 17, 2012
We all know that great sex is more than just physical- it is mental and emotional as well. Most of us cannot enjoy sex as much when we are not mentally and emotionally satisfied. Sexual satisfaction can be tied to a lot of aspects within our lives. Read my story and apply it to your own life. Take the steps that I took to achieve the freedom and satisfaction you deserve.
Nov. 14, 2012
Sometimes you do everything right and things still go wrong. In [www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-health/getting-the-snip-part-one/|Getting the Snip, Part One], I told the story of how my boyfriend and I made the decision that vasectomy was right for us. This is what happened when he went for his vasectomy appointment.
Nov. 12, 2012
There are a lot of misconceptions about how birth control works and what the options are. As a feminist birth control researcher, I am working to dispel these myths through this series about each form of contraception available on the market in the United States. In this introduction to the series, I am giving an overview of the two feminine hormones and how they work in contraceptives.
Nov. 10, 2012
I never had anyone tell me I was pretty growing up. I never had any support from my family. My body self image was horrible. I hated myself so badly that I have no pictures. I didn't look in a mirror. I believed that no one could love me or even look at me.
Nov. 09, 2012
We've all heard of this debate. Were you born gay? Or did your environment nurture you to be gay? My answer to those who ask me is, "I chose to be gay the moment you chose to be straight." I've always known. The only choice I had was if or when I chose to "come out of the closet." This article is about sexual orientation and my opinion on whether or not sexual orientation is based on nature, nurture, or both.
If you've ever wondered "What did I ever see in him/her?" this might be the answer.
We all grew up with this schoolyard saying, using it in defense when others would say something that hurt us or called us names. How accurate was that little saying and has it played a part in society's lack of acknowledgement of mental and verbal abuse? As an adult, do you know the signs and the result of mental abuse? Are you an abuser, either intentionally or accidentally?
Have you ever gotten out of a relationship only to find that you feel like you got run over by a truck? Struggled with crying yourself to sleep at night? Tried to go out on dates but only ended up talking about your ex? Then read on...
This story is far from typical, it does have cheating spouses, betrayal, triumph and wrenching decisions. It also has a huge twist... and a unique perspective. This is the other woman's story and its ending- well, I will let you read it for yourself.
If the intimacy in your relationship is seemingly absent then it may time to take the initiative and reignite that spark.
As a queer person who is not strictly lesbian, it can be difficult to fit into a gay community, and impossible to fit into a straight one.
When the time came for 'The Talk,' my mother decided to inform me about the differences between 'good girls' and 'those girls.' Let's just say, the thought of being one of 'those girls,' not to mention the effort to avoid becoming one, was... inhibiting.
For those of you who read the first installment of my contraceptive series, this is the second installment, in which I will provide accessible written information about Paragard. Paragard is my favorite contraceptive to talk about because, well, I use it! This article will provide information about the basics of Paragard— everything you need to know when making your decision about what contraceptive is best for you.
Are you wanting to feel sexy again but don't know how? Well that's what I'm talking about today. So read and enjoy.
Every month, we'll ask a question, and we want your honest opinion in 300-500 words. These articles are purely the opinions of our contributors. While we support their right to express them, we do not necessarily agree with or stand by their opinions.
SexIs Subjective: Sexual Freedom, It's not just for young people anymore!October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Sexis presents a series of stories that highlight those who have fought, those who have survived and and those who continue to bring inspiration, hope and strength to everyone who faces the battle against breast cancer.
Breast Cancer: It's not *just* about the breasts!Educating you about sex, sexual health, sexuality, and much more at SexIs Social. Take control of your sex education. [www.edenfantasys.com/sex-forum/edenfantasys/sexis-suggestions/-sexis-september-sexis/|Find details on contributing here.]
The How To Guide to LesbianismNot everybody is created equal. That is, we each face unique challenges in life, some more difficult to overcome than others. From disability to dysfunction to emotional disconnection, the impediments to enjoying sex are many and varied. The Sexual Challenges Project aims to examine, discuss and…
Tokophobia: Fear of ChildbirthBDSM—kink—fetish: what are they? How does one do it? And, most importantly, who’s doing it? The answer might just be staring back at you in the mirror.
Submissive's Guide to Giving Head
Kink Savant
Nov. 20, 2012
Coming Out, Letting Out
Modern Love Muse — Juxtaposition of knowledge, sensuality, Eros and practicuum.
Nov. 14, 2012
Thanksgiving Aphrodisiacs
Militant Ginger
Nov. 07, 2012
So Barack Obama Won The Election: What Does That Mean for Sex-Positivity?
Exposing myself one sentence at a time.
Oct. 24, 2012
She Plays, He Plays: A Toy That Isn’t
The Perverted Negress. (AKA The Executive Pervert AAKA Trembling, Delicate Flower of Submission.)
Oct. 03, 2012
Make Me Want It
Almost three years has passed since the first interview with Fred, founder and owner of Edenfantasys; so many wonderful changes have been made. Not only has the selection of products increased dramatically, but so has the size of our community and the diversity in the programs offered.…
Interview with Fred Petrenko
More than two decades ago Ducky started her career working at a sex shop in New York City’s rough Times Square district. An organic path that started as a temporary job to make ends meet developed into a career she loves. <br> <br>Like Ducky says, “The experience of answering people’s…
Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle
Delilah started writing eleven years ago. She and her sister were at the office late at night (as those who had volunteered to stay late that night for their IT company for Y2K) when the two of them discussed where they wanted to be in ten years. Both of them agreed it wasn't in that…
Interview with Editor and Author, Delilah DevlinKeep up on new articles, projects, columns and more
After all, some things just don't need to remain a mystery
There's more to it than "me see, me want!"
Relationships don't grow on trees, and neither does a happy sex life.
Gender is…whatever you want it to be.
How to get it on without getting it too risky.
Here's to good health – and even better sex.
Sex, like cheese and wine, ages better than you may think.
Sex permeates everything, especially when it comes to pop culture.
Your biggest sex organ isn't the one between your legs…
Get off by getting your kink on!
What can your sex life do for the planet?
Venture outside your comfort zone to experience sexual traditions from around the globe.
How does body image relate to sexuality? How do the media and fashion industries affect your body image? Let us count the ways...
How should you approach that cutie at the bar? When's the "proper time" to start thinking about sex? These questions and more answered here.
Sometimes, it really IS all about the O and nothing else.
A man's best friend doesn't always have to be his hand!
Proving the fact that sometimes its a very good thing to be anal-retentive.
BDSM + toys + you = a spanking good time!
From harnesses to dildos, we've got answers for nearly every question.
And anything else we can think of…