redditgifts has two focuses: organizing gift exchanges between redditors and providing a place to organize reddit meetups.
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Participants must have a valid reddit account to sign up with redditgifts.
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A Santa is the person sending the gift. Regardless of which exchange (e.g. Secret Santa, Halloween, books, etc), we refer to the gift giver as a Santa.
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A giftee is the person who is receiving the gift.
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A rematcher, also know as a Rematch Santa, is someone who has signed up to give to a giftee who’s original Santa didn’t follow through.
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The Secret Santa subreddit (reddit.com/r/SecretS...) is often abbreviated to “r/SS”.
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Matching Day is the day sign ups close and participants are matched with their giftees. Matching Day varies with each exchange. The Exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...) will tell you the exact date for each exchange. Click on the “info” link for the appropriate exchange to see when it is.
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Shipping Day is the day everyone is supposed to have their gifts in the mail by. Shipping Day varies with each exchange. The Exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...) will tell you the exact date for each exchange. Click on the “info” link for the appropriate exchange to see when it is.
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Exchange credits are what you get for participating in exchanges. They are free and the more you participate the more you get.
When you sign up for redditgifts, you are given 1 credit. When you sign up for an exchange, it costs 1 credit. When you have completed everything required of an exchange, you will receive your credit back, as well as an additional credit for completing the exchange. If you were a rematch Santa, you will receive 1 bonus credit for the exchange. The number of credits you have indicates the number of simultaneous exchanges you can participate in.
We do this to try to ensure that people do not sign up for many exchanges just to receive gifts. Hopefully as more time goes on, the more effective this system will be.
To see how many exchange credits you have, go to redditgifts.com/exch... and look under the “Sign up for new exchanges” header.
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Arbitrary Day Plus is designed to allow participants to know that they are matched with other redditors who have participated at least enough times to have the 3 credits needed to participate. There is no other difference.
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There are three primary exchanges every year, Secret Santa in December, Arbitrary Day in June, and Halloween in October. Look for information to start popping up early December, May, and September respectively.
There are also many other exchanges throughout the year. If you mark your profile (redditgifts.com/prof...) and make sure the box beside “Receive upcoming exchange notifications?” is checked, you will get an email when they are announced.
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Of course, please contact the admins at redditgifts.com/info.
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At this time, exchange signups at limited to one per user, regardless of how many exchange credits that user may have.
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We recommend about 20$ USD. However,you can choose to spend more or less. It really is not about the money but please do not be a dick about it. It is all about the thought and effort.
Please keep in mind if you choose to spend more, you are not guaranteed to receive a gift outside the 20$.
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Revealing your identity to your giftee is completely up to you.
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We understand that life sometimes gets in the way of good intentions. Any time before you are matched you may cancel. Once matching is done, however,, you can not cancel your participation.
If you would like to cancel your participation before Matching Day, go to your Exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...) and click on the title of the exchange you would like to cancel participation for, and click the "cancel participation" link.
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No, you opt-in to shipping internationally. **Please note that this is a preference, not a guarantee.**
If there are not enough people signed up in your country, you may get matched internationally, despite your preference. Likewise, if you opted-in to international shipping, you may be matched domestically.
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Go to your Exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...):
1. Click on the title of the exchange you would like to update your likes for
2. Click on the “updates likes/dislikes” link
3. Update the text and click on “Update My Settings!”
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On matching day, our system will randomly match you with another redditor in a completely random fashion and you are not matched to each other.
E.g. ilovecats may send to ilovedogs who may send to ihatecats who may send to I hatedogs who may send to ilovecats. It’s completely random.
You are not provided with information on your Santa, only your giftee.
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This can only be done **BEFORE** sign ups close.
Go to your Exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...):
1. Click on the title of the exchange you would like to update your likes for
2. Click on the “updates likes/dislikes” link
3. Update the text and click on “Update My Settings!”
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Now, you get to stalk them, in a non-creepy way of course. Check their reddit history. You can look for them on google, facebook, twitter, linkedin, whatever. You do have all the information they have chosen to give you, so use it... But please do not be creepy about it.
Some of out favourite reddit-related tools are:
- metareddit - metareddit.com/stalk/
- reddit Investigator - redditivestigator.com
- redective - www.redective.com/
- reddit graphs - www.redditgraphs.com/
Once you have shipped your gift, please make sure you let us know you’ve shipped your gift here: redditgifts.com/faq/...
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No. Who you are matched with is who you are matched with. Please keep in mind that you chose to give a gift for the sake of gift giving only and your gift may enlighten someone else’s life.
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Yes. Contacting your giftee is not required, but if you want to ask them something, on the Retrieve Match page (redditgifts.com/exch...), click on the exchange title, then click on “retrieve match” and there is a link below your giftee’s address which lets you send an anonymous message. When you send a message, your giftee will get an email letting them know, and you will get an email letting you know when they reply.
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Your exchanges screen features a parcel icon that represents the gift you can expect. The date below indicates when the information was most recently retrieved by your Santa. This will change depending on how often your Santa looks at your info. The date indicates the latest date they looked at your info. When the present is shipped, the icon will turn green and the shipping information provided by your Santa will be to the right.
Tracking numbers are not required, but they are encouraged. Please also keep in mind that some people don’t check more than once.
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Your giftee is counting on you and they are waiting. If you are late shipping, please send your giftee a PM and let them know that they have not been forgotten.
If you do ship late, redditgifts will send you reminder emails. If you are very late, your giftee may mark the gift as unreceived which will result in you being banned from redditgift exchanges. That’s not cool.
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From your exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch... ):
1. Click on the exchange title
2. Click on the “confirm shipped” link
3. Enter the shipping details and you can either save the shipping information or save and add another package if you have shipped more than one gift.
Make sure you checked the “promised you shipped” chekbox!
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From your exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch... ):
1. Click on the exchange title
2. Click on the “post received gift” link
3. Add as much information as you want, and include as many photos as you want.
4. Click on the “Save and Publish” link
Your Santa will get an email letting them know you received their gift with a link to the gallery.
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Do the same thing you did when you first marked the gift received, from your exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch... ):
1. Click on the exchange title
2. Click on the “post received gift” link
3. Add as much information as you want, and include as many photos as you want.
4. Click on the “Save and Publsh” link
Your Santa will get an email letting them know you received their gift with a link to the gallery.
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Your exchange credit will be returned to you once your giftee posts their gift. If you go to your exchanges page (redditgifts.com/exch...), you will see the exchange icon in grayscale and "Please wait for your match to post the gift you sent" if all that remains is your giftee to post.
There will be a cutoff date by which all people who's giftees do not post the gift they received will receive their credit back.
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They will be sent many email reminders and, ultimately people who don’t ship a gift or mark their gift received are banned from future exchanges.
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