10 tips for C-section recovery
Posted by Candy Woodall
October 21, 2014
Candy Woodall is an editorial researcher in Washington, D.C., who enjoys family adventures with her husband and four children in her spare time. Those adventures sometimes include actual travel. She and her family live in the Dallastown Area School District.
A pediatric nurse once told me the unexpected C-sections are the hardest.
A dear friend once told me they all suck.
They were both right.
As I’m facing my third C-section, I feel compelled to share a list of small mercies that have helped me through surgery and recovery.
1. Relax. The trip from the operating room doors to the cold, stainless steel table where your baby will be born might feel like the longest journey of your life, but don’t waste your energy being nervous. The doctors and nurses in your O-R consider C-sections to be second nature. During my first surgery, the medical team discussed a trendy new restaurant. During my second surgery, a different team discussed some training seminar. Meanwhile, I asked about every two seconds if everything was OK. Each time, the answer was, “Everything is great.”
I was also blessed with the world’s best anesthesiologists, who during my surgeries made me feel like everything was perfectly fine and it was totally normal to feel like my body stopped at my ribs.
All of that happens during the mere minutes it takes for doctors to make an incision and take the baby out of the uterus.
Once I see a healthy baby, it’s so much easier to relax. I get to look at an adorable face and know I’m being sewn and stapled back together.
I thank the doctors and nurses 5,447 times and look forward to holding my baby in the recovery room.
2. Get an abdominal binder. OK, so, I don’t really like these things, but some of my friends swear by them. They are basically superhero-powered Spanx. But instead of sucking in your gut, they’re designed to support your abdomen, which just had its intestines, muscles and reproductive organs tugged, pulled and pushed around. Abdominal binders are often provided in hospitals and make walking, coughing and sneezing so much more bearable.
3. Make friends with pillows. The abdominal binder might not be enough. You just had major surgery, after all. I highly recommend a collection of sturdy pillows. I like carrying a stiff travel pillow to hold against my belly when I’m taking those first steps after surgery. As an added bonus, they make breast feeding more comfortable.
4. Walk. Those first steps after surgery are intense — like someone just unzipped your body and played tug of war with your fallopian tubes. But they’re important. You definitely need to take it easy, but you should walk for short periods of time as often as you are able. The circulation will help you heal.
5. Stay ahead of your pain. I absolutely hate taking medicine. I hate the groggy feeling that comes with pain killers. But trying to catch up to the pain is so much worse. I typically only use the heavy pain killers for about a week. After that, I just use over-the-counter motrin. But when I’m in the hospital, I take a nice regimen of pain killers and Colace.
6. Pack some loose-fitting clothes. The last thing you’ll want to wear home from the hospital is a snug pair of pants, rubbing against your incision.
7. Be with your baby. Once you’re home from the hospital, just be with your baby. Don’t worry about house chores or being a perfect hostess to visitors. Just focus on loving your baby and healing, and you’ll likely find yourself feeling better and stronger every day.
8. Ask for help. When people say, “Let me know if I can do anything,” make sure you let them know. For example, I’ll be asking someone to go to Target and the grocery store for me. I’ll gladly give them money and a list because walking around a store is the last thing I’ll feel like doing. Also, be sure to give them gas money, even if it’s your mom (who probably won’t accept it).
9. Go camping. Whenever I bring home a new baby, I camp in the living room for a week. There are more things I need on the main floor than the third floor, and I don’t want my husband bumping my incision in the middle of the night. It’s also usually the first chance for baby and me to get some rest. The frequent checkups in the hospital, combined with the typical hospital atmosphere, usually make it pretty tough for me to get any sleep.
10. Be thankful. You’re home. You have a beautiful baby. You have a wonderful family and group of friends who can’t wait to meet and love your little guy or girl. You’re completely exhausted, but you’re feeling a little better every day. And you’re someone’s mom. That’s pretty awesome.
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