I am a professional dominant (pro dom), sacred intimate, BDSM / sacred sexuality educator & kink friendly life coach / mentor based in Northwestern Connecticut (NWCT).

I have been in the NY scene & BDSM lifestyle for over 12 years as a "switch", which for me means that I at least occasionally enjoy both spectrums of the power exchange dynamic as well as both ends of the whip.

As a submissive & slave, I have served many amazing dominants and have learned much about how it feels to truly offer yourself to someone, and how wonderful it feels to know that your offering is deeply cherished.

I use what I have learned as a submissive, as well as my experience with Tantra work, Sacred Intimacy and many years of attending & teaching BDSM classes and workshops that have helped me to hone my topping skills as I developed my own very unique style of sensual sadism and domination.

As a Mistress, I love finding out what makes a submissive truly tick and then using that knowledge to create a wonderful experience that meets both of our needs. I am definitely a sensual sadist, I love pushing people to the edge of their endurance with both pain and pleasure and I relish those moments when someone is willing to go just a little further than they thought they wanted to just because they know it is "getting me off".

To find out more about me, how & why I do what I do and so much more, please feel free to explore this site as well as some of my other specialty sites. This is my main web site and it is quite extensive. You can navigate it by using the menu at the left or you may prefer to use this Site Map Page.

So what's the latest news Suze??

My Latest Travel Schedule:

I am tentatively committed to attend and/or present at the following:

Bound in Boston's "Wicked Women" September 27th, 2014

New England Erotic Hypnosis (un)Conference March 27-31, 2014

Bound in Boston XV March 22-23, 2014

NELA - Winter Flea Market March 7-9, 2014

For more info check my Travel & Event Page or drop me a note at Mistress@SxySadist.com

Live on WPLR FM 99.1 and WEFX FM 95.9 "The Fox"!

Listen in Tuesday morning, February 19th, when I chat with Chaz and AJ on Ask a... Dominatrix!
If you missed the live broadcast, you can check out my blog entry on the subject here.

My Fetish Pics & Videos are now on sale thru NiteFlirt!

One of the other great things about having a NiteFlirt account is that it will allow you to purchase and then instantly download my hot live action Fetish Videos or choose sets of photos from my vast archive of several 100 galleries. Check them out!

BDSM Spa Sessions Specials

I have recently been very much enjoying doing a combination of sensual massage, body work and BDSM for some of my clients. To read more about what these sessions can entail click here: BDSM Spa Sessions

Merry F*&king Christmas!

I have a totally HOT new sex toy on the way: The ShockSpot!! I have wanted this baby ever since I first saw it at Folsom Street Fair about 3 years ago and my favorite Santa is helping to put this baby under my tree this Christmas!

I can hardly wait until it arrives and I get to thoroughly test drive it on a few of my favorite ass sluts! I am accepting applicationg starting right after the new year!

What is the ShockSpot Fucking Machine? It is the most advanced, robotic fucking system on the market today. The Shockspot offers complete control of the stroke length, speed, smoothness and pattern at the touch of a button. You have the option of selecting pre-programmed routines or creating your own using our intuitive point and click programming page. Flexibility, compactness and quality define the Shockspot. When stored, this pleasure system fits into a case not much larger than a standard briefcase. When expanded, the Shockspot will accommodate any desired position from lying, kneeling, seated to a full standing position in less than fifteen seconds. Designed from super-rigid materials, the system is light enough to be carried effortlessly yet solid enough to remain in your desired position when in use. Visit Shockspot.net for more information.

Sheer Catsuit Photos

A good friend and fave playmate brought his camera along on a playdate last week and we did a couple dozen shots in the new space that I threw into a photo gallery for you. Enjoy! Catsuit Shoot

My Brand New Dungeon!!

Hooray!! After several months of back (and nail) breaking hard work my brand new 1200 sq foot multi room facility is ready to play in and I have just uploaded a dozen or so pics of Sneak Peek photos for you to check out!

Please do step into my new domain and take a look around: New Dungeon Facilities!

A Ton of New Photos

I decided it was time I updated the website and I needed some new pics to do that, so I just finished a shoot with a fabulous photographer named Henry Porter. I added a couple of them to this page but I also created a new gallery here: New HP Photo Gallery! Let me know what you think of the new pics by dropping me a note!

Phone Domination Sessions Thru Nite Flirt!

Due to popular request I have signed on to do phone consultations through Nite Flirt!! If you have never used Nite Flirt before your first three minutes are FREE! Must be 18+. For more info on my phone sessions click below.

Twitter, My Space, Facebook, & Fetlife Profiles

Ok so at some point not long ago it dawned on me that I was probably the only human in the civilized world with out a My Space profile. So not one to be left in the dust for long (Ok so maybe not longer than a few years anyway) I finally decided to remedy that and although it is still very much a work in progress, I think it is pretty hot looking over all.

Take a peek: Suzanne SxySadist's My Space

You can also follow me on Twitter here: twitter.com/SuzanneSxySadis

Or find me on Facebook here: facebook.com/MistressSuzanne

And Fetlife is the kinky person's answer to social networking. I am there as well as Suzanne SxySadist.

Life Coaching:

Last year I completed the core curriculum in professional Life Coaching with The Coaches Training Institute and I am extremely excited about this work and love the idea of helping people to lead more fulfilling and rewarding lives. For more information click here: Personal Life Coach

Some of my other websites include:

www.NurseNasty.net for My medical fetish fans
www.ShibariLover.com for the rope & bondage fetish folks
www.SMCoaching.com My life coaching site