Academic assholes and the circle of niceness

· by Thesis Whisperer

Two of my favourite people in the academic world are my friends Rachael Pitt (aka @thefellowette) and Nigel Palmer. Whenever we have a catch up, which is sadly rare, we have a fine old time talking shop over beer and chips (well lemonade in my case, but you get the picture).

Some time ago ago Rachael started calling us ‘The B Team’ because we were all appointed on a level B in the Australian university pay-scale system (academic Level B is not quite shit kicker entry level academia – that’s level A just in case you were wondering – but it’s pretty close). I always go home feeling a warm glow of collegiality after a B team talk, convinced that being an academic is the best job in the entire world. Rachael reckons that this positive glow is a result of the ‘circle of niceness’ we create just by being together and talking about ideas with honesty and openness.

spacer Anyway, just after I announced my appointment as director of research training at ANU, the B team met to get our nerd on. As we ate chips we talked about my new job, the ageing academic workforce, research student retention rates. Then we got to gossiping — as you do.

All of us had a story or two to tell about academic colleagues who had been rude, dismissive, passive aggressive or even outright hostile to us in the workplace. We had encountered this behaviour from people at level C, D and E, further up in the academic pecking order, but agreed it was most depressing when our fellow level Bs acted like jerks.

As we talked we started to wonder: do you get further in academia if you are a jerk?

Jerks step on, belittle or otherwise sabotage their academic colleagues. The most common method is by criticising their opinions in public, at a conference or in a seminar and by trash talking them in private. Some ambitious sorts work to cut out others, whom they see as competitors, from opportunity. I’m sure it’s not just academics on the payroll who have to deal with this kind of jerky academic behaviour. On the feedback page to the Whisperer I occasionally get comments from PhD students who have found themselves on the receiving end  — especially during seminar presentations.

I assume people act like jerks because they think they have something to gain, and maybe they are right.

In his best selling book ‘The No Asshole Rule’ Robert Sutton, a professor at Stanford University, has a lot to say on the topic of, well, assholes in the workplace. The book is erudite and amusing in equal measures and well worth reading especially for the final chapter where Sutton examines the advantages of being an asshole. He cites work by Teresa Amabile, who did a series of controlled experiments using fictitious book reviews. While the reviews themselves essentially made the same observations about the books, the tone in which the reviewers expressed their observations was tweaked to be either nice or nasty. What Amabile found was:

… negative or unkind people were seen as less likeable but more intelligent, competent and expert than those who expressed the the same messages in gentler ways

Huh.

This sentence made me think about the nasty cleverness that some academics display when they comment on student work in front of their peers. Displaying cleverness during PhD seminars and during talks at conferences is a way academics show off their scholarly prowess to each other, sometimes at the expense of the student. Cleverness is a form of currency in academia; or ‘cultural capital’ if you like. If other academics think you are clever they will listen to you more; you will be invited to speak at other institutions, to sit on panels and join important committees and boards. Appearing clever is a route to power and promotion. If performing like an asshole in a public forum creates the perverse impression that you are more clever than others who do not, there is a clear incentive to behave this way.

Sutton claims only a small percentage of people who act like assholes are actually sociopaths (he amusingly calls them ‘flaming assholes’) and talks about how asshole behaviour is contagious. He argues that it’s easy for asshole behaviour to become normalised in the workplace because, most of the time, the assholes are not called to account. So it’s possible that many academics are acting like assholes without even being aware of it.

How does it happen? The budding asshole has learned, perhaps subconsciously, that other people interrupt them less if they use stronger language. They get attention: more air time in panel discussions and at conferences. Other budding assholes will watch strong language being used and then imitate the behaviour. No one publicly objects to the language being used, even if the student is clearly upset, and nasty behaviour gets reinforced. As time goes on the culture progressively becomes more poisonous and gets transmitted to the students. Students who are upset by the behaviour of academic assholes are often counselled, often by their peers, that “this is how things are done around here” . Those who refuse to accept the culture are made to feel abnormal because, in a literal sense, they are – if being normal is to be an asshole.

Not all academic cultures are badly afflicted by assholery, but many are. I don’t know about you, but seen this way, some of the sicker academic cultures suddenly make much more sense. This theory might explain why senior academics are sometimes nicer and more generous to their colleagues than than those lower in the pecking order. If asshole behaviour is a route to power, those who already have positions of power in the hierarchy and are widely acknowledged to be clever, have less reason to use it.

To be honest with you, seen through this lens, my career trajectory makes more sense too. I am not comfortable being an asshole, although I’m not going to claim I’ve never been one. I have certainly acted like a jerk in public a time or two in the past, especially when I was an architecture academic where a culture of vicious critique is quite normalised. But I’d rather collaborate than compete and I don’t like confrontation.

I have quality research publications and a good public profile for my scholarly work, yet I found it hard to get advancement in my previous institution. I wonder now if this is because I am too nice and, as a consequence, people tended to underestimate my intelligence. I think it’s no coincidence that my career has only taken off with this blog. The blog is a safe space for me to show off display my knowledge and expertise without having to get into a pissing match.

Like Sutton I am deeply uncomfortable with the observation that being an asshole can be advantageous for your career. Sutton takes a whole book to talk through the benefits of not being an asshole and I want to believe him. He clearly shows that there are real costs to organisations for putting up with asshole behaviour. Put simply, the nice clever people leave. I suspect this happens in academia all the time. It’s a vicious cycle which means people who are more comfortable being an asshole easily outnumber those who find this behaviour obnoxious.

Ultimately we are all diminished when clever people walk away from academia. So what can we do? It’s tempting to point the finger at senior academics for creating a poor workplace culture, but I’ve experienced this behaviour from people at all levels of the academic hierarchy. We need to work together to break the circle of nastiness.

It’s up to all of us to be aware that we have a potential bias in the way we judge others; to be aware that being clever comes in nice and nasty packages. I think we would all prefer, for the sake of a better workplace, that people tried to be nice rather than nasty when giving other people, especially students, criticism about their work. Criticism can be gently and firmly applied, it doesn’t have to be laced with vitriol.

It’s hard to do, but wherever possible we should work on creating circles of niceness. We can do this by being attentive to our own actions. Next time you have to talk in public about someone else’s work really listen to yourself. Are you picking up a prevailing culture of assholery?

I must admit I am at a bit of a loss for other things we can do to make academia a kinder place. Do you have any ideas?

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265 thoughts on “Academic assholes and the circle of niceness

  1. spacer Kate says:

    Thanks for this- I’m a PhD candidate who just got the true asshole treatment from a senior faculty member while doing a public presentation to recruit participants for a research study. I guess the lab coat in a room of people casually-dressed should have given away his status immediately… Just wanted to let you know this post helped me deal with ‘why’ he was an ass. I don’t have any suggestions for how to make academia a kinder place, but hopefully if more people try to understand the reasons underlying negative behaviours, a cultural shift can take place. Once again, appreciate the post.

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    • spacer madameppm says:

      Hi Kate, this has happened to me too. I’m a PhD student, and we seem to be fodder for assholes; it seems to be some sort of ritual amongst this cohort. DIfficult to try and unpick somes, but hang in there, the journey is worth it

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    • spacer Anonymous says:

      I agree, you have to watch out for the Chairperson that is nice to you to your face and double crosses you during a review process. The two face academic asshole.

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      • spacer Anonymous says:

        You just described my thesis advisor.

      • spacer Anonymous says:

        Several of us with the same advisor call this “being thrown under the bus.” The main focus of our feedback to each other (on our writing for her) is what we *shouldn’t* say if we want to avoid private scorn and public humiliation.

      • spacer Anonymous says:

        INDEED! I cannot even begin count the number of two-faced academic assholes in my field. Smiling at your face and then kicking you when you turn your back.

    • spacer michaeld says:

      Often the faculty are performing for each other, not for the student: senior faculty want to demonstrate that they still have it, and junior faculty, regardless of gender, need to show the senior faculty that they are competent: the graduate student and the quality of her or his work is often irrelevant in these displays–just a vehicle for faculty ego and posturing.

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    • spacer Pat says:

      This is such a valuable discussion. The AHs do not confine themselves to higher education; they are to be found in corporate and even nonprofit environments, too. Years ago when I took a course in cultural anthropology, I read a book about how people who “cut a tough deal” or took unfair advantage of others during a business transaction (I’m using very polite language for, essentially, screwing others) were held in esteem by their societies. In certain cultures (ours perhaps?), people who make more money or in other ways get ahead by mistreating others are respected for their audacity that’s perceived as saviness or smarts. More recently, a friend suggested a book, Snakes in Suits, that was written by a psychologist. We all need to be aware of these people and figure out how to deal with them without becoming one and the same.

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  2. spacer Karen says:

    I really love this. Thank you for posting.

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  3. spacer Dennis says:

    I personally think, it is a matter of domincance. Dominant people get into higher positions and are considered more competent. When you are neither on the top nor at the bottom you have a strong urge to prove dominance. Sadly, there is a trend to view aggression as a sign of dominance and many fall back on this kind of behavior because it is the easiest way.

    I am, however, personally convinced that there are ways to make strong statements, defend your point, and show your dominance without being an asshole. This could even be more efficient. I experienced that countering aggressive attempts with an emotionless rational response and maintaining high standards in manners, has a much stronger effect than responding aggressively. Being overly friendly in this situation, however, is not a good idea. You might either be perceived as mocking the other guy or being submissive. both are not favorable.

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  4. spacer The Wisdom of Life says:

    Like coal and diamonds are both made of carbon, only one lets the light pass through, the other absorbs it. It might be just a fact of life that we all possess the asshole organ. Some of us are just unfortunately disfigured such that the organ has cropped up on our face. Still others appropriately use it to rid ourselves of waste. Asshollery applied appropriately is of use. To let the waste pass through, instead of collecting in our person, but I may be full of shit. (Clever enough?) :)

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  5. spacer Anna says:

    I think there is a gendered element to this too – female academics are more likely to be the “nice” ones who do the emotional labour in departments (with both colleagues and students) and who get left behind in terms of hiring and promotion because they are seen (perhaps unconsciously) as less clever. So I see your goal of “breaking the circle of nastiness” as a feminist goal – it will empower people with very different, often more feminine, communication styles and thus combat these implicit biases.

    Thinking about it, this could also be a good strategy for promoting nicer behaviour; it has certainly been important to my own growing awareness about my unconscious gender biases against women (and I’m a woman myself!). In other words, we need to respect “feminine” communication styles and train ourselves away from our unconscious assumptions that these indicate some kind of weakness or deficit.

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