Feb 9th 2011
By: Kinky Corner
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The pictures in this blog are of me — you may notice a few bruises and a little discoloration. These are things you will rarely see on my bum. You don’t see them because a) I generally don’t bruise all that easily; and b) I don’t bottom all that often, either. And when I do get spanked, it’s usually in a sensual or erotic situation. However, this past weekend I did my very first ever non-Bum Rap video shoot, and these pictures amply demonstrate the result.
My darling friend, Audrey Knight, had been trying to get me to shoot something with her for a while Unfortunately, although I was more than willing, the timing just never seemed to work out. Well, the stars finally aligned and we were able to set a date for last Saturday and Sunday. Audrey and her adorable partner, Stefan, rented a cottage on the Jersey Shore where all gathered Saturday morning. The group included my husband, Yoni, who accompanied me, the adorable Chloe-Elise, and another very sweet couple, Giselle L’Amour and Tommy Marino.
Over the course of the two days, we shot six or seven scenarios (they all kind of started blending into one after a while). In one, I spanked Chloe-Elise, with whom I really hit it off. She’s a doll, but just bratty enough to make you want to really let her have it. And believe me, her bottom is incredibly spankable.
Chloe also had the chance to do some topping, spanking Giselle in one scene. She did such an effective job, in fact, that by Sunday morning, Giselle bum was so bruised and battered, there was no way she could take another spanking. I also spanked Chloe again, which was lots of fun. But somehow, as Sunday afternoon wore on, Giselle and Tommy and Chloe-Elise left with some bottoming left to be done by somebody.
Now call me suspicious, but I have a sneaking suspicion things worked out the way they did by design. First, Stefan and I finished a scene we’d been shooting, with Stefan turning the tables and spanking me. But the pièce de résistance (or, maybe coup de grâce) came late Sunday, when Audrey finally got to spank me (a date I kind of think we’ve had for years now). And WOW, can that girl spank! She wailed away on my bottom, actually making me cry. By the time she was done, I had been incredibly well spanked.
Interestingly, when Yoni suggested doing another video with me turning the tables on Audrey, she demured. Too bad. I think that payback would be fun! But I had a great weekend, spending time with an old friend, and making a few new ones. And I returned home with a little something to help me remember the fun.
Happy spanking!
T
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Feb 3rd 2011
By: Kinky Corner
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Dear Spanking Community Friends,
My name is Tanya Marten. Most of you probably know me best by my professional name, Tasha Lee. Several years ago, my erotic romantic comedy about spanking, Euphoric Tendencies, premiered to very enthusiastic response on the Off Off Broadway stage in New York City. After the production closed, I rewrote Euphoric Tendencies for the screen, the place I’d originally envisioned it.
I am writing this letter (and, basically, outing myself) to ask for your help and support in bringing this positive, life-affirming and entertaining look at our spanking lifestyle, to a mainstream motion picture audience.
With the help of my husband, Jonathan (known to many of you by his nickname, Yoni), who directed the stage production, I created a complete Business Plan, and have begun the job of raising the money necessary to produce the film version.
Euphoric Tendencies is being co-produced by our mainstream indie production company, Soular Films, as well as the Actors Repertory Theatre, the non-profit 501c3 stage company who produced the Off Off Broadway production. And while we’re seeking investors capable of participating with larger sums in the project, we also wanted to come to our community — the spanking community — and ask for your help in getting this film made.
While we have developed specific packages for those interested in investing larger sums, even if you can contribute $50, $25, or $5, made as a tax deductible donation through the non-profit, you can be a part of making this project a reality. By the way, goods and services (i.e. things like fetish wear that can be used for costuming; toys like paddles, straps, floggers, etc.; scene furniture like a St. Andrews Cross, etc.; and even locations for shooting) are things that can be donated for a tax deduction.
And for those potentially interested in, and capable of making a larger investment, the Business Plan, as well as a copy of the screenplay are available in a password protected site online.
Please contact me at tasha@bumrapprods.com or tanya@soularfilms.com, and ask how you can become part of making this dream a reality, and bringing this positive look at our lifestyle to the mainstream film-going audience.
Happy Spanking,
Tanya “Tasha Lee” Marten
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Jan 26th 2011
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Birthday Spankings. Aren’t they the greatest?
I certainly think so.
I just wanted to share with everyone, what a wonderful spanking party we had this weekend here at the F.O.P. For those who don’t know, the F.O.P. (or, Fortress of Pervitude) is the name given our apartment and the spanking parties we held there when we lived in Chicago. In the years since and through a number of other homes (and parties), the name has stuck.
Anyway, at this weekend’s party, a number of our close friends were in attendance. Additionally, we also welcomed a number of new friends to the F.O.P. This particular party was held to celebrate our dear friend, Miss Chief’s, birthday. Naturally, she received some great birthday spankings. A bunch of them, in fact.
By the way, I would like to share my favorite way of giving a birthday spanking. It goes like this. Say the person is turning 25.
You start with:
One
One Two
One Two Three
One Two Three Four
You get the idea…
It’s a wonderful way to lengthen and make a birthday spanking truly memorable.
Anyway, it was a really great party and a memorable way to celebrate the birthday of a wonderful friend. There was lots of spanking fun, some bondage, and lots of terrific food and conversation. And while our apartment was a little crowded and the upstairs got a little warm (for a number of reasons), given how truly cold it was outside, the warmth was more than welcome. Besides, we had downstairs for those who needed a good place to cool off — unless, of course, you were in one of the play rooms. Those contained some very hot bottoms.
So happy birthday to all you Aquarians out there. I hope you get your well deserved birthday spankings.
If I was there, I’d be happy to join in.
Happy Spanking,
Tasha
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Dec 14th 2010
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Hi All,
I am so excited. A while back, Yoni and I posed for an artist friend creating pictures for a new book on the Kama Sutra. We posed for her over the course of a few days and had a wonderful time doing it.
The artist, Carolyn Weltman, was fantastic to work with. And the fact that I’ve studied yoga really helped us figure out some of the poses.
Well Saturday evening, we were at Paddles when a friend of mine handed me a package. She had found the book on the web, purchased it and brought it to us as a present. It’s so cool! I went through the entire thing figuring out which pictures were us. Most of the time, you can identify our pictures by my hair (and sometimes, by Yoni’s beard).
If you want to see more, here’s a link to the book. It’s called The Mammoth Book of The Kama Sutra.
By the way, if you ever have a chance to model for an artist of Carolyn Weltman’s talent and ability, I highly recommend it. It’s fun, meditative and who knows — maybe you too will be immortalized in the Kama Sutra.
Happy Spanking,
T
P.S. If you’d like to see more of Carolyn Weltman’s work, please click on this link.
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Nov 23rd 2010
By: Kinky Corner
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To All My Kinky Friends.
As most of you know, I frequently try to find interesting, kinky topics to write about in this blog. And I know I’ve been unusally silent for a while. The reason is that I’ve been dealing with the fallout from my foot surgery in early June. And for those of you that are interested or have been following my progress, it goes something like this.
As many of you already know, after my original “fall from grace,” at the party celebrating the publication of my book, Hot Crossed Buns — A Beginner’s Guide To Spanking, back in February, among what seemed to be the more serious damage at the time, I broke my toe. Unfortunately, the broken toe healed incorrectly, and ended up crossing my big toe, causing enormous pain. I ended up having surgery on June 4th to correct the crossed toes, as well as the 45 degree bunion I’d had from my years as a dancer, which the fall had made even worse.
Well, although the bones healed quite well after the foot surgery, there was this plate with some screws in the middle of the scar that just wouldn’t stop shooting pain throughout my foot. The doctor figured this was from a pissed-off nerve close by that would, eventually, calm down. And so, we waited for the nerve to give up and accept its new metal neighbor. Unfortunately, the nerve was stubborn and, after a recent, weeping call to the doctor, he decided the offending metal plate needed to come out.
The doc (a great guy, whom I love), told me that healing from this second surgery wouldn’t be too bad, and I’d be able to walk the same day. So, on Nov 5th, I had a second foot surgery to remove the plate. As it turned out, when the doc got inside my foot, he found that the pissed off nerve was sitting right on top of the metal plate (where it shouldn’t have been). I guess it really wanted that metal plate outta town. So, out came the plate and screws. The holes were filled with bone putty, and the nasty nerve was moved and tucked in some fat nearby to make it comfy cozy.
And while, yes, I’m still in some pain (well, a bunch when I walk), it is getting better. A few days ago the stitches came out. And that’s when the doc told me it was too soon for me to be standing on my foot for 20 minutes at a time, which I’ve BEEN DOING on the subway for the past 10 days!! I’m thinking right after the surgery might have been a better time to tell me that, but, ah well. Now, at least, I’m commuting during non-rush hours, and keeping the walking to a minimum.
Anyway, now you know why I’ve been so quiet. And now that I’m beginning to feel semi-human again, I promise to have some juicy, non-foot-medical stuff for you soon.
In the meantime, I’m ready for some serious sympathy. A few . . . “Aww, you poor thing,” or “it’ll be alright soon,” would be lovely.
I believe the attached new picture of my foot (Yoni took it after the removal of the stitches) aptly represents my year in review. With a few lovely exceptions, 2010 seems to have been about falling, cuts, bruises, surgery, pain and scars. Enough already. I’m done. It’s time for the 2011 powers that be to bow down, kiss my foot and make up for this frackin’ year. Funding my mainstream spanking film, Euphoric Tendencies, would be a really good start. And I’m ready and looking forward to a big ass scar that sends foot fetishists screaming in fear . . .
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Aug 27th 2010
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Hi All,
While I continue healing from my surgery earlier this Summer, the following is a guest blog from a close friend. It covers a subject I’m not personally familiar with, so I appreciate her sharing her thoughts and experiences with us.
Yours,
T
My name is Miss. Chief and I self spank.
Self spanking isn’t something I do on a regular basis; but it is a resource I use when I’m feeling agitated, out of touch, and, most importantly, do not have a spanking partner. It has served as a balm to help quell my inner angst (which makes me miserable), thus proving to be a wonderful form of healing therapy.
I remember when I first came out in the scene, and was lamenting to an acquaintance that I had no friends to play with. Joking, she proposed I start spanking myself. At the time I laughed the idea off, but secretly the idea intrigued me.
When I got home I started experimenting a little, feeling ridiculous the entire time. However, mixed in with that was a certain pride for being self-reliant; it was a pleasant realization I didn’t have to depend on anyone else to satisfy all of my spanking needs. Of course, that’s not entirely true — I enjoy spanking play immensely, and couldn’t imagine not having play partners. However, I find relief in the knowledge I have the ability to take care of myself when necessary.
When I started, I didn’t take myself too seriously; but I did begin researching, posted on a couple of message boards, and slowly gathered information that would help make my sessions more effective. And there was comfort in knowing I wasn’t the only person who practices self spanking.
On the other hand, I do have friends who laugh out loud at the very idea. I think they believe it’s desperate, or somehow demeans me, which I understand — I used to feel the same way. I would feel embarrassment and get resentful that I was put in the position of having to “resort to such desperate measures.” Obviously, my attitude has since changed. I spank myself when I need to, and feel grateful that I can. Truth is, I feel really naughty when I do, which arouses me to no end, and makes me want to masturbate like a crazy bandit.
When it comes to the actual deed, many of the paddles I use when playing with others, work well when spanking myself (although some are better than others). I recently procured a beautiful Zia paddle, made of sturdy wood, which has a long handle that makes it much easier for me to go back and forth between cheeks.
As to other implements, belts don’t do much for me; neither do strops or any other toys requiring a good swing. My aim is terrible and I much prefer to have someone else mete out “punishment” using those implements.
I’ve also found that music is an important addition to my ritual, primarily because it masks the sound, although I’ve recently found that rap music is excellent if you like to spank to the beat (rap isn’t something I normally listen to, but have discovered a new-found appreciation for).
By the end of my spankubating session, my bum is warm and tingly, and I feel worlds better. I have on occasion put pain rubs on my backside after a self spanking session; this only serves to make the burn last longer, but can be a literal pain-in-the-ass, so I don’t fully recommend it.
On the downside, there are some things I can’t do while spanking myself, but that’s just the way the cookie crumbles. Bratting has proved a little bit of a problem as it simply doesn’t translate well (plus it sounds a little schizophrenic). Additionally, being a switch, I have yet to figure out how I can self spank a non-existent partner.
After care looks different when you’re spanking yourself, even though some of the same tenants apply as with partnered spanking. Be kind to yourself, apply lotion, eat chocolate, and drink water (okay, the chocolate is my personal addition).
Summing it up, if I had to choose between self spanking and spanking with a trusted partner, the latter wins out, hands down. However, when that’s not an option, and those ‘ol cobwebs are creeping up, spankubating is a worthwhile substitute, something I do for relief and fun, and that works.
And I not embarrassed to admit it.
Thank you for listening,
Miss. Chief
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Jul 1st 2010
By: Kinky Corner
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Forget diamonds, *vibrators* are a girls best friend! As long as I can remember, toys have more than held my interest — in point of fact, most of my friends consider me a toy slut! If it’s new, and geeky, and assists in orgasms, then I have to have it. Vibrators are varied in design, from bullets, to rabbits, from ridiculously large, to extremely expensive. Despite their diversity, the main objective of a vibrator is to get you off, and many of them do their jobs excellently. Over the past few years, I can honestly say I’ve had many vibrators buzzing on my girlie bits, but not all the experiences were much to write about. I’ve leaned a few things, one of them being, you get what you pay for, and the other being, electric vibrators are much more powerful than battery operated ones.
For the purposes of this blog I’m going to review two vibrators for you. The Eroscillator, an electric operated fairly expensive piece, and the Mystic Wand, the battery operated little sister of the beloved Hitachi Magic Wand.
Now, lets start with the Mystic Wand. As already noted, she’s the proud little sister of Hitachi’s very dependable larger model, costs about $50, and is worth every penny. Deceptively powerful for a battery-operated vibrator (she takes 4 AA batteries), she claims to be waterproof. I can’t comment on her water tightness, since I tend not to masturbate in the shower, but I have seen it used underwater during SM scenes shot for a kinky website, and it seemed to do the job required. The Mystic Wand is small, and has a very flexible head, and when turned on, has a cute little blue light (perfect for partnered masturbation sessions in the dark). Unlike the Magic Wand, the Mystic Wand has seven different settings, from the traditional low/high vibrations, to Morse code-like buzzes, which are delightful. This is one vibrator you can depend on when you do not have a power-source, and need/desire the intensity of the Magic Wand. This little baby works great. The only downside is, if it’s kept on the labia too long you may get numb, so extended play with this vibrator is limited. T But otherwise, it’s a great traveling buddy and would make a welcome addition to any erotic spanking.
The Eroscillator is backed by Doctor Ruth, and is a very high-end toy (close to $200). Although you may have to get over the weird attachments and how ugly this toy is, it’s a real keeper. The Eroscillator is not a traditional vibrator; it’s head moves back and forth very quickly over your clitoris (anus, labia) at very high rates — I believe it oscillates to over 7000 per minute. This action mimics a very nimble and talented finger (though at 7000 wiggles per minute, it would have to be a super mutant finger :-), and though subtle, is very effective. It also has a very long power cord, so there’s no need to worry about outlets. The very first thing one notices is how quiet it is compared to its peers. The other thing you notice is how well it stimulates the entire area. This is not a toy that will “rip” an orgasm from your body in 2 minutes or less, the eroscillator is more of a coaxer. With its three levels of power, it gently persuades a reaction from your body (while expertly stimulating your labia and clitoris). The frustration of spending so much time masturbating is quickly overshadowed by how intensely DEEP the orgasm is. To make things even better, you can continue stimulating yourself with the Eroscillator without numbness, and have another orgasm fairly quickly after the first. Since receiving mine, I have completely neglected my Mystic and Magic Wands, because the orgasmic experience cannot compare.
In conclusion:
The Erocillator has finesse.
The Mystic Wand is portable and will get you off quicker.
Either toy would be a welcome addition to any erotic spanking, however nice deep orgasms, beat quick superficial orgasms any day of the week. You can’t go wrong with the Mystic Wand, or the Eroscillator. If you have extra money to spend, the Eroscillator is worth the price tag, but if you’re a budget spender, the Mystic Wand is the way to go (and you can carry her around for impromptu masturbation sessions during the day).
Miss Chief
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Jun 23rd 2010
By: Kinky Corner
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Hello again friends of Bum Rap,
I just wanted to send a quick email to let you know that my Surgical Sale ends this Friday, June 25th, at 11:59 pm.
Although the sale was supposed to end last Friday, our shopping cart went down for a few days, so we decided to extend the sale to make up for that.
In any event, if you’d like to take advantage of our 20% discount, plus the two FREE BONUS downloadable video shorts (one FemDom — me spanking a studly fella; and one F/F — me and Sarah Gregory; both video downloads approximately 8 minutes long), you’ll want to act fast before this offer goes away.
Click now to go to the sale link.
Happy Spanking,
Tasha
P.S. – And to all those who’ve bought, donated recently and/or sent get-well wishes, I want to thank you with all my heart. The support is truly appreciated.
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Jun 10th 2010
By: Kinky Corner
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(And if anyone was wondering, post-surgery I am in pain and going stark raving mad from laying on my ass. What follows may or may not have a little something to do with that.)
Wishing on a penis. It sounds like an odd thing to do but I feel honored that someone did just that to help speed my recovery.
A friend of mine was at a party recently. She was celebrating her birthday and her friends had taken her to a special restaurant for the occasion.
After dinner and desert, a waiter brought out an additional, special desert for the celebration. She didn’t know what it was called but it looked like a cannoli set on its end and standing up straight. It was completely covered in chocolate with a mound of chocolate at the bottom. It had whipped cream on top and whipped cream dripping down the sides. She told me all this on the phone.
I laughed and said, “Could they have made it any more phallic?” She laughed and said, “Oh my, I never thought of that.”
I couldn’t believe it. Really? She hadn’t seen it — the chocolate covered tube with mound at bottom and whip cream at the tip and dripping down the sides and not thought it was penis shaped? Huh?! I mean, was it just my imagination making that up, or was it a chef’s demented joke?
Anyhow, on top of the lovely chocolate and whipped cream image, it seems the pastry had a candle in it that shot a flame through the whipped cream, and it was my friend’s job to make a wish and blow on the candle. (And, of course, this wasn’t supposed to be suggestive — blowing on the candle and all). I know, just my perverted mind, turning another harmless celebration into something indecent and fun…
Anyway, before she blew out the flame on the pastry penis, she made her special birthday wish. And just what did this lovely lady wish for? She wished for my speedy recovery. Naturally, I thanked her. And in retrospect, I thought, “How appropriate to wish for my speedy recovery on a fiery creamy penis.” I like that. Wish me a speedy recovery so I can get back to making spanking films and blowing my husband.
So, I raise my hands in homage and offer thanks to my friend who wished on a penis for my recovery. Maybe we should make it a trend. We could use cannoli, or low heat candles that we can play with afterwards… Or, perhap,s we could use a real penis, cover it with whipped cream, and instead of blowing out the candle, if we blow the whipped cream off, our wish gets fulfilled and the fun proceeds from there. You see, when one can’t get out of bed, one’s imagination takes over.
What are your thoughts on rituals to make our wishes come true? Please feel free to share. I’ve nothing to do here in my bed but read and write and imagine.
Happy spanking,
T
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Jun 2nd 2010
By: Kinky Corner
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Greetings fellow spankos and spankoholics!
This may be the hardest blog I’ve ever had to write. It’s incredibly difficult for me to ask anyone for anything, let alone help. But recent events have brought me to a place where I really don’t have any other choice, so here goes.
As many of you know, at the February 6th Launch Party for my book, Hot Crossed Buns — A Beginner’s Guide To Spanking, I tripped going down a flight of stairs, taking a head-over-heels tumble that left me with a large gash in my forehead, a broken toe (which, at the time, seemed the least of my problems), and bruises and contusions over most of my body.
Because of the injuries sustained in the fall, I was bedridden for two weeks, which used up most of my allotted sick and vacation days for the year at work (and, yes, for those of you who are not aware, I actually do have a 9-5 vanilla job that pays my bills — unfortunately, Bum Rap Productions does not yet support me financially).
Anyway, as time went by, the gash in my head healed, the bruises disappeared and the headaches I’d been experiencing since the fall eased. Unfortunately, the one problem that continued was the pain in my foot. Since I’ve already detailed all this in my blog post entitled, My Left Foot, I won’t go into details here; but the sum total is, the broken toe healed incorrectly, with the bone now pressing against another bone which is what’s causing the excruciating pain, the result being, this Friday, June 4th, I will be undergoing surgery that will leave me in a cast and unable to work my day job for — at a minimum — three weeks (I’ll be unable to shoot anything new for Bum Rap until, at the earliest, August).
As already noted, because I have used up my sick and vacation days, I will not be paid for the time I can’t work, and although I’m being put on Short Term Disability (which pays half my salary), that won’t kick in until after my third week out (by which time, I’m hoping I can actually go back to work!). However, what this does is leave me with a shortfall in my income I have no way to make up for.
That being the case, if you have ever thought about buying one of my videos, or a copy of Hot Crossed Buns, now’s the time. Effective 12:01 am this Saturday, June 5th, I am starting a SURGICAL SALE, and will be reinstituting the 20% discount on all our videos that we gave during our Flood Sale earlier this year (I know, it’s already been one helluva year for us, a truly frightening thought considering it’s not even half over yet). The SURGICAL SALE will run for two weeks, ending June 19th.
During the SURGICAL SALE, I am also putting signed copies of Hot Crossed Buns on sale, with shipping included in the purchase price.
And, finally, if you simply have a BIG HEART and want to help out, I’ve placed a link to a spot where you can donate to the Save My Ass (& Foot) Fund in increments of $10. Anything helps.
And because I don’t like to ask for anything without giving something back, for anyone who purchases any of my products, or who makes a donation to the Save My Ass (& Foot) Fund, I am giving you a choice of a FREE SPANKING VIDEO DOWNLOAD. For those who like to see me giving a deserving male a good, hard spanking, I am offering a never before seen short, Union Break. If you’d prefer to see me spanking a beautiful female, you can choose Tasha Spanks Sarah, featuring me spanking the adorable (and deserving) Sarah Gregory. Both films are approximately 8 minutes in length, and are being offered for the first time. After you’ve placed your order, you’ll be redirected to a Thank You page where you’ll find links to download your video of choice.
In any case, if you have EVER thought about purchasing a Bum Rap spanking video, or a copy of Hot Crossed Buns, you’ll never see a lower price — and it’s only available through June 19th.
And, as always, thanks so much for all your support. I appreciate it more than I can say.
Warmly,
T
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