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Sadomasochism & Fetish

you dont need alot of money to be in this lifestlye

as a sub its my opinion that being under the control of my Dom’s gaze and tranced out by his words are more than enough. and the hand across the bottom,neck and chest is ummm.. wow. got sidetracked there. i will be the first to admit that these extras bring alot into a session. knowing the expense personally,i know it can be very draining on the pocketbook. some things you should always have top quality of but i will get to those near the end.

bondage on a budget is pretty simple…

rope,belts,tape,handcuffs.string and chains,zip~ties,tir downs,bungee cord,extention cord,pantyhose/nylon,plastic cling all work nicely! to go even cheaper and possibly more fun try this:

a)rubberbands of all sizes. can be used on everything it can fit.( just be careful of the time spent as damage could occur)

b)test your sub or yourself by using a chain of paperclips. too much movement can break the chain and that may be a delicious no~no 

c)or just be as still as told…

its hard to imagine someone into this lifestyle not having dildos but i have yummy solutions for you there as well!

a) fun with ice…  grab a condom. fill with water or any other liquid that will freeze tie it off, double it if you wish. and hang in your freezer. and there you have a chilly dildo that with cause much reaction!

b)condom over fruits and veggies (without sharp edges)

c)warm up the base of a candle size of choice and soften the edges..or the whole lovely thing. add texture as you see fit. ive made one that was twisty and it was so nice! use organic candles btw. unscented too!

d) how about a polished and (splinter free!) knob from a bed post?

just use you imagination and be smart about it. you do not want to cause damage that may send your sub or yourself to the ER right?

belts,floggers,crops and whips mmmmm…while these are a must have you can  follow my advice and start with these.

a) ive done this for friends and felt the effects of it. not bad at all i must say!

get a bungee cord and cut off on of the hooks. carefully unravel and secure the other hooked end with a tight knot. take the bungee and set it into a warm shallow bath with an oil soap and a few drops of the Dom’s cologne..wash it up nice rinse only any bubbles away.. or better yet towel dry it. you want the cologne to not be washed away! hang and rub a little oil into it and let dry. once done your sub will love getting a sniff of your scent with each strike!

b) a fly swatter…  ive recently learned of electro ones and nice an cheap too!

c)wooden spoons!

d) egg turners, extention cords,even a small damp towel and snap it.

you dont need all the sexy bdsm furniture although it helps! you can always…..

a) tie your sub to the shower rod or closet rod.

b)go outside and use a treee

c)turn a foot stool or ottoman as a spanking bench.

d)a weight bench.. the poles that hold the weight bar is great to secure your sub’s hands or feet to it.

e) dining room table! the tables legs and size of the table is perfect. just be sure its sturdy!

again, just use your imagination !!

bandanas work well to blind,bind or gag too!

candle wax is another favorite!

a comfy and safe enviroment is akways appreciated.

music is the backround and dark covers on all vanilla furniture will give the room a new feel for the session.

a side tip: as a sub i love being naked and exposed while the dom remains clothed (at least until you want want her to feel alot more)

pick up a box of latex gloves also. most subs melt at the snap..really! or simple grab a handful at your next check up and any other goodies you can get. a tongue depressor ect..

really just use your imagination! i have so many more suggestions and open to more!