BDSM on a tight budget…
Saturday, December 15th, 2012
you dont need alot of money to be in this lifestlye :) as a sub its my opinion that being under the control of my Dom's gaze and tranced out by his words are more than enough. and the hand across the bottom,neck and chest is ummm.. wow. got sidetracked there. i will be the first to admit that these extras bring alot into a session. knowing the expense personally,i know it can be very draining on the pocketbook. some things you should always have top quality of but i will get to those near the end. bondage on a budget is pretty simple... rope,belts,tape,handcuffs.string and chains,zip~ties,tir downs,bungee cord,extention cord,pantyhose/nylon,plastic… Read More
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why write about Marquis de Sade? the words “sadism” and “sadist” are derived from his name,thats why.
Friday, November 23rd, 2012
as a long time sub ive found myself dive into the history of the bdsm realm time and time again. some of which i will touch on in another post on another day.. marquis de sade"s life has made such an impact in the bdsm world that i dare not put his life along side others in text. yes,i realize many have had an important role but,come on! we are talking about marquis de sade! have a look at the artwork ive posted. is that not a beautiful… Read More
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The extreme porn law in the UK
Friday, August 3rd, 2012 The extreme porn law in the UK, entering peoples bedrooms and making it illegal for consenting adults to enjoy the fetishes intrinsic to them. How can that even be in a free democracy? Britain is totally fucked up now - it was the tabling of this law that finally led me to leave the country. It's a sick society, and it's showing no signs of imminent recovery. Nonsense like this is only possible because the majority of the British public actually support it. It's no longer a nice place to be. Nothing as extreme as this in the rest of Western Europe. Germany has moved a little further into the censorship bubble, but from an extremely liberal… Read More
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Financial Slavery For Slavegirls?
Saturday, June 30th, 2012
Financial Slavery For Slavegirls - Does it even exist? surely pimping someone out on a web-cam would fit the remit? Personally, I'm guilty of lurking here, I suspect for the same reason as many others... this isn't something that I actively do, but I was more fascinated to see if the financial slavery thing that seems so common with male subs translates well to fem-subs service would fall in group's remit wouldn't it? Having been here a while, I think the issue seems to be that the pure 'tribute' culture of female financial domination seems to somehow be sex-specific, and girls who want pimps tend to hit the streets to find one rather than… Read More
Tags: femdom, financial slavery, pimp
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A Sub having Multiple Doms – Possible ?
Thursday, June 7th, 2012 From my perspective I've found that more than one Dom/me is possible if they are highly compatible and respectful of each other. Yeah it's easier if one has the final say, but the ideal is that any clashes are simply worked out between themselves, so that there is never a dilemma for the sub. In the example above, on Dom has said go to bed at 10pm, the other then says they want you to stay up late. The solution is painfully simple to me... you tell the second Dom 'Ah Dom1 told me I had to go to bed at 10pm' - assuming things are working properly this is then Dom2's problem not yours - he can either go talk to Dom1 and… Read More
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Fetish Modelling – how to enter fetish,bondage or bdsm modeling
Thursday, May 24th, 2012
Some people get a huge thrill out of showing their bodies off to people, on top of this the pay is normally pretty good if you can secure a regular gig as a fetish model. Remember, this isn’t like any other type of modelling and you may be expected to do things that you may not necessarily agree with doing. Although, since you are reading this I am pretty sure that you already know what may await you should you become a Fetish Model. Throughout this article I am going to teach you the best way to become a fetish model or BDSM performer. A fetish model is a person that is hired to show off fetish clothing ranges, this can either be bondage or… Read More
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The Story of O
Wednesday, May 16th, 2012
What became of O from the story of O ?
The classic story of the submission of O really should have ongoing sequels of where O ventured onto in her exploration of her submissive nature and masochism. The training in the castle was exciting but never quite reached the release or final stages, though obviously the ritual branding of O was a climax. The actual collaring was less impressive.
Lets hear peoples thinking ... what happened to O ? Did she abandon the BDSM lifestyle, did she find a new master, what happened? All thoughts, stories and contributions are very welcome ... along with spinoffs such as the further events at the castle. Read More
Tags: bdsm lifestyle, masochism, story of o
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BDSM Health Issues
Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Newcomers starting out exploring their alternative sexualities often overlook basic bdsm safety and health concerns, that would be simple common sense for more experienced practioners. The consequence is that even much lighter play or experiments performed by bdsm beginners are often in fact more dangerous than more advanced practices by experienced lifestylers. The health issues concern the potential of unhygienic play as well as the possibility for emotional or physical damage to one or both parties.
Health Precautions and Risks
Keeping… Read More
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Alternative Sexuality – The BDSM Scene
Saturday, May 5th, 2012
Alternative Lifestyles - Taboos, Myth and Reality Sadomasochism is an erotic sexual play done through infliction of pain and/or humiliation. This is an unorthodox method of sexual stimulation, in which an individual make use of physical objects and materials to inflict pain for gratification. Up to this date, this kind of practice is considered as a taboo to the majority. Even at this time where many have already been informed about this practice, most communities have remained to think of it as a cult intervention or a blasphemous provocation to god. Some people have also identified this practice as a mental… Read More
Tags: alternative sexuality, bdsm, dominant, sadomasochism, submissive, switch
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BDSM Myths & Facts
Friday, April 27th, 2012
To many the world sadomasochism is strange or even appauling. Traditionally such sexual tendencies were considered a mental disorder or simply a grave disturbance in personality. In recent years however topics related to bdsm has found its way through the backdoor to mainstream media, hollywood movies and public life in general. The heavy metal band Metallica released a song called S&M, famous popsinger Madonna released a photobook with a sadomasochistic theme, mainstream movies such as The Secretary and 9½ Weeks were both clearly sadomasochistic in their themes and contents. The list could be continued through the day, as little symbols… Read More
Tags: bdsm myths, bdsm or abuse, bdsm prejudice, bdsm societies, sadomasochism
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