Although most men come to Thailand for a bit
of rest and recreation or a few casual flings, many are surprised
to find themselves embarking on a serious relationship with a
Thai girl.
A bit like a fish out of water the amorous farang
can be worried about committing a cultural blunder and causing
offence. He often is not prepared for the complex customs, the
mysterious practices and often (to a farang mind) the unpleasantness
of the dowry system and the importance of money to friends and
family.
This little guide will help prepare you for some
of the steps along the road to forming a serious relationship
with a Thai up to and including marriage and divorce.
The advice is from personal experience of the
writer and from many stories I have heard along the way. Your
mileage may vary. Please always bear in mind that just like in
the west, Thai's are individuals and often unpredictable.
My personal experiences are with a girl from
a small village in Isaan, North East Thailand. Chances are yours
will be too; but if she comes from North Thailand or Bangkok or
South Thailand the customs and culture can be a little different.