Rules
from the Ladies Perspective
Just
because a lady smiles at you and says hello, it does NOT
mean she wants you to jump on her, do not make assumptions.
When
a lady says "No thank you" in front of her husband,
don't assume she will act differently once her husaband
is out of sight.
As
in any situation with a lady, "No" does mean
"No", not maybe! Just because you are at a swingers
club it doesn't change the meanig of the word "no".
Don't
assume that because a lady is a swinger she will accept
you touching her without permission, so don't wander around
"grabbing ass", you are just as likely to get
slapped for this as at any other time.
When
you are chosen by a couple to join them treat them both
with respect and do not "Kiss and Tell" if you
ever want to get another chance.
Rules
From the Husbands Perspective
Do
not approach only the wife/lady, they are there as a couple
so treat them as such. Don't forget the husband is likely
to have the final say on whether he will share his wife
with you.
Don't
be boastful, you may well be setting yourself up for a
fall. Swingers tend to have a fairly healthy libido and
be experienced in the art of sex.
Don't
be pushy, a couple will let you know if they are interested
in inviting you to play.
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