If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I encourage couples to have a weekly sex date. I prescribe three-hour chunks of time carved out for sex. Only sex.

A major principle in feng shui, the ancient Chinese art of spatial alignment and arranging, is “out with the old and in with the new.”

Every time I see a guy with a moustache in November/Movember I get mildly annoyed. Because I think these people are missing the point. Instead of using some kind of oblique and irrelevant symbol, why not go right to the source? Go find that G-Spot and give it some love.

Yeah, I know. Everything sounds sexual when you do what I do. Over the years as I’ve evolved as a sex coach, I’ve experienced my own “coming out.”

Sex for me has always been about transformation. Pleasure, yes, definitely. But I always felt how sex uplifted and changed me as a person. Well, the right kind of sex.

There are times when the universe supports change in your life. You get a nudge that it’s time to leave or change a situation. You’ve been in it for a while; you’re comfortable there.