The Blah Diary: Contemplation of Uninspired Moments
by Manal on February 6, 2012
Do you ever feel like you don’t want to do anything?
You stare at the work you’re supposed to be doing but feel blah. You’re in a blank state—unmotivated or bored.
The same can happen at home. You’re just not up to much and don’t know what to do with yourself. You feel numb and indifferent.
I go through phases of this blah state. I just sit there and do nothing. Or worse, I start wasting time, mostly online, doing useless stuff.
I had a conversation with Matt, a wonderful and talented reader. After the exchange I decided to run an experiment and keep a blah diary. Basically I would document all the moments that I felt numb and try to understand where these moments are coming from and what I can do about them.
Today I want to share with you some of the main findings and encourage you to start observing your own moments.
Why use a blah diary
Being in a dull state every now and then is not a big deal, but if it goes unnoticed for an extended period of time, it becomes part of your routine. It turns into a habit that causes you pain for no reason other than it hasn’t been noticed and questioned. It can be quite disruptive and draining.
A diary will help you in the following progression.
Observation creates awareness.
When you start recording (observing) your activities, you become more aware of them.
I usually track my productive time for work purposes but it’s much harder to track your unproductive time. Once you start noticing your blah moments, you pay more attention.
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