Define Stalking
Yes, I think everyone of us realize there is a fine line between logging-on to a site, finding someone you are interested in and letting that interest be known…and stalking. I try my best to never make any woman I find online feel uncomfortable or that she’ll regret coming on to passionearch-my current best dating site-but I guess I’d have to concede that I may have been a bit zealous at times.
The problem is that dating sites allow for such a quicker turn-around on intention and reception we tend to sometimes jump further then we would in those first few times communicating with someone. Especially if the methods for communication are as good as they are on passionsearch; I find the video chat, the huge population, the idea that everybody onboard here is looking for basically the same things I am in dating, all of it makes me that much more hopefully to be on the site and I guess, at times, admit it though I am loathe to, I do get a little overzealous over some women I meet because I just assume that they are ready and willing just like me and everybody else on the site.
Yes, the potential for sex does make a man a little bit crazy!
But really, I don’t want to come across as a stalker and even though we are pretty much safe on the net-another reason we all probably get a little too forward time to time, knowing we are safe-I have to constantly remind myself that this is all not just about me, that my dating involves another person and that I need to be conscious of this other person and how they might misinterpret my interest, when all it really ever is, at least during those initial contacts, is interest.
Best not turn anybody off early and best to use passionsearch for what it does best, bring people together for dating, without pressure.
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