Adult Dating Signs
When you enter the Adult dating world you have to learn to read the signs. For instance there are certain phrases and words people will use to indicate the type of sex they are interested in. There may be people in the Adult dating world that are into bondage and things that might be of some interest to you. You’ll have to judge whether you want to get involved with this or not.
One of the common misconceptions about bondage is that it is just a way to have a sex slave anytime you please. They think it’s just about getting some pussy in a very kinky setting. This may be true for some people but they are dabbling in the shallows of what that world is all about. There are a lot of people that live this lifestyle all the time. They realize that it is about finding a match for themselves. They realize that to be the dominant one means they are taking responsibility not only for themselves but also for the slave or the submissive one. The submissive one has abdicated their personal responsibility to that dominant one. It isn’t just about telling someone what to do it is about having the character to be obeyed and to inspire the confidence that follows that.
The problem is that there are a lot of people that do not have the maturity to be dominant and aren’t naturally so. There is a big difference in being dominant and being arrogant or assertive. There is a difference between being domineering. The difference is that one is naturally suited to their position while the other just wants the position without the responsibility. They are children wanting to act like adults. They should stick to the porn and their imaginations rather than getting involved with something they don’t have the character for.