Rob Malone
I recently had the pleasure to read Rob Malone’s new blog at brainsalsa.com.
He addressed a question about coaching from of one of his readers with insight, providing useful information, based on experience…
Rob writes:
On Monday probiotic expert Neil Dhawan from www.geneflora.com asked, “How important do you think it is to have a coach?’ So that you can experience the same frustration my daughters do when they ask me a question I am going to give you a conditional answer. It depends on the coach and how open you are to constructive, honest evaluation of your flaws.
I am a huge believer in coaches. If you follow sports you know that skilled coaches can produce perennial winners year after year after year – at any level from high school to professional.
I personally have had numerous coaches (both my professionally and personally). Here are some lessons learned in selecting a coach.
For coaching to work you have to remain objective when the coach is diplomatically telling you that you suck. Your idea is crap, your execution is sub par, you are inferior to your competition, you aren’t putting in adequate effort… yadda, yadda, yadda. Or a really great coach will tell you when you need to fire yourself if you just don’t have what it takes in a specific area.
Know specifically what you want from the coach – coaches are not mind readers and it is your responsibility to define the objectives.
Coaching relationships are not life long commitments. All coaches have limitations which means there is a limit to high they can take you. Be aware of this and when you hit that glass ceiling part ways and look for the coach who can break you through.
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