Avoiding the 5 Biggest Turn Offs
Hitting someones turn offs can end a relationship before it even starts. While many people have different quirks, there are a few things that are universal when it comes to turn offs. Here are a few of them so you know what to avoid.
Poor Hygiene
No one wants to accept a date with someone who smells badly or looks like they haven’t washed their hair in a few days. While we all have our ‘frumpy’ days, these are not the days you should try to pick someone up.
Cockiness
Being assertive is desirable, aggressive is not. If you come across as cocky you will have a hard time finding someone who is willing to look beyond this. This applies to women as well, not just men. Being a strong woman is great, but just be mindful that being bossy or pushy is not a sign of strength.
Bad Pick Up Lines
You can have some fun with pick up lines if you are creative. Asking a woman if it hurt when she fell from heaven isn’t going to score you brownie points. Just be yourself and leave the pick up lines to someone else.
Bragging
Yes, it would be great to meet someone who is successful and ambitious. This doesn’t mean you should flaunt a Rolex and spend a lot of time talking about your newest corporate acquisition. Nothing makes you unapproachable more than this.
Low Self Esteem
While being too cocky is one thing, being down on yourself is another. If you don’t feel comfortable it’s going to show. We all have image issues, but try to keep them under wraps when you’re out.
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