Easy Flirt - Style, sexuality, dating.
First of all , what is eye-contact? You don't need to stare at the hot girl, for instance, or a charming young man, in order to get this connection. Make them see You, make them get your eyes in range. Make them seduce you. Sounds not so easy, but in fact, flirt is founded on the basic things, that will promote your inner confidence and teach you how to be successful in seduction. First of all, be different from everyone else - nothing crazy, though something eye-catching, something special. It is not just about your style and your clothes - more about how you move , how you talk and how you behave. Talk to different people - and this is the best method I personally like - find someone you are not so interested in, someone you can easily talk to. This someone - guy or girl, doesn't really matter, should be standing not far away from the individual you are into , so that he or she can hear everything well. Talk clear and loud - let the hottie pay attention to you first , form the first impression. To make it perfect, make the person you are talking to laugh and try to seduce you - let the target know you are social and friendly. Try to stand with your shoulder pointing to person you would like to meet ( standing with your back pointing to that direction means attraction and facing him/her doesn't leave it a chance for the ONE to evaluate you well and build interest). Let's proceed to the eye-contact. Once you feel the person you would like to meet is highly interested in you ( he/she starts talking loud as well, laugh and move more than it was before, look into your direction more often), this is the right moment for your eyes to meet. Whet you feel this person is looking at you, make a slight turn with your head and look at him/her. Continue talking to someone you are talking right now - it really creates the feeling of detachment and indifference. Look at your target's eye and slightly , with a hint of evaluation , have a look at him/her from top to bottom, then look into the eyes again and smile with a corner of the mouth without showing the teeth - just a light friendly smile, meaning " yeah, you look OK today ;) " Don't forget , this is flirt and you can play whatever rules you like. Try to turn away BEFORE the target does. After that you can escalate the time you look at each other, and when this action lasts for longer than socially accepted - you will definitely feel it - this is a perfect second to approach or to make a sign that this person should approach you. This is what the next article will be devoted to. ;)
No doubt every one in this world ever got himself/herself into a situation when you know someone for a long time, become good friends, share secrets and watch movies together, call each other couple times a day and text non-stop. Though there is always a feeling that this could be something more and could grow into a long-term, stable and reliable relationship. Or just be more sexually active and exciting. I have been in that situations myself - purposefully and just by accident and would like to share some tips and hints on how to promote friendship to Flirt and Dating. First of all, you need to realize the reasons why you are just friends and nothing more than that. In most of the cases, this is an excess of comfort. There are 3 basic factors that mostly influence the relationship (the type of relationship) between 2 people. They are:
- Comfort. Excess of comfort can lead two people to become friends and just want to hang out with each other, share experience and talk about simply everything. You don't need to worry on how you look right now, how you feel, what is the impression that you produce , because you are in a comfort zone and friendship accepts it all. - Emotions. When there is an excess of emotions, the relationship between people turns into something platonic and detached. They enjoy each other's spirituality, adore behavior and admire quality time spent on talking about something high and eternal. - Sexuality. This feature is the strongest and produces an instant sparkle between people. Lust, seduction, flirt are all based on that type of energy flow. This feeling is probably the oldest as well - far beyond the civilizations formed and language invented. This is very prime and profound base people exchange. Realizing that structure you can very effectively evaluate the relationship formed between you and the person you like. Whether this is friendship, spiritual entity or sexual attraction. In order to change the current relationship status you need to trigger these factors, move emphasis from one to another. For instance, if you are good friends with someone and would like to make it more than friendship, take it to a new level, bring more sexuality, promote flirt and seduction. Be touchier, do something more exciting, share more intimate secrets and values. Open up your primitive nature, release that ancient energy flow and you will see where it will lead you both. Good Luck!This is one of the most exciting topics for me - the first kiss, how to go for it, what it takes and how to behave for everything to go smooth, stylish and sexy. Every one of us, probably, remembers the first kiss they ever had in their lives - it was very tense, very emotional and long-lasting effect leaves a lot of memories. As the time flows, kissing and making out tend to get less ambitions and get more sexuality involved, loosens up it's tension and becomes more of a routine action. To me there is no doubt that in order to attract and seduce someone you really like, strong and emotional first kiss is a must - it creates this "high-school" moment that will never leave anyone indifferent. So, a little down this article I will share my tips on how to create and arrange a perfect "first kiss" impression. First of all, an average person has 28 first kisses in his/her life, according to the scientific research date. This is an average - and to me doesn't seem like it is a big number. We need to nourish and appreciate this moment in our lives - the first kiss with a person, is pretty much the first intimate ( and to someone, believe it or not, kissing is more intimate than having sex, for instance) moment in the possible future relationship. So, how to make those average 28 kisses become remarkable life-long memories? Have a plan, think about it in advance - what is the perfect way you want to do that? How long should it last? Should it be gentle and soft or more of tense and passionate? Where should it take place? Answer the questions like this and it will make a big difference - if it is perfect to you and you enjoy it a lot, the other person will enjoy it as well. Make it different - don't just make out right after the date is over, next to your front door, hesitating for a while - think about special place - stop by the ocean beach on the way back home and let it happen under the dark blue clear sky with stars shining vivid, or on the bridge with a beautiful view point over the night city life with it's light and non-stop movement - in fact, it can be really simple and doesn't have to be a yacht with personal chorus and orchestra playing music for you two - sharing iPod on the bench of a quiet river will de pretty well. Just value and love these moments.
Have you ever found yourself in the situation when you see someone at the subway station or in the cafe or simply in the street, that seemed to be a very attractive individual( at least to your personal opinion)? I am sure this happens to everyone and the worst thing to do in this case is to find yourself an excuse not to approach and then to realize the chance was ignored and regret it for a long time. So how to meet everyone you like, how to find courage to talk to a beautiful stranger - no matter what , he or she might be talking over the phone, busy or even with a bodyguard. I would like to share my personal experience and tips. I don't want to tell you something like " be confident" , " be yourself" - it simply doesn't work. You need an effective though easy and memorable method to use. I tried different ways from " 3 second rule" to " the first step" , anchoring and so on. First of all, take it as granted - approach will always go far beyond your comfort zone anyways. It is always a challenge, especially if we are talking about someone with a really high social status. DIfferent techniques work for different people and I found couple that work for me and want to share - in case you have a desire to try them out and see if it is good for you as well. The first technique is to " scream out quietly" , as I call it - it is really simple. Right before you noticed a 10-point girl or a really handsome man - and start feeling that tension inside - scream inside your mind as loud as possible something like "AAAAAAAAA" or "YYYYAAA". It really stops the flow of any other thoughts in your head. Scream that till the very moment you are next to the person and start a conversation. It reminds me like our ancestors , leaders and kings inspired the troops and warriors with a loud sound and went into the battle in the first row. At some point you will have the same feeling from the deep past - fearless, brave, inspired. The other way is to make it a challenge. Try to ask yourself - "Can I do this? Am I strong enough? Do you want to do this or regret later?" . This brings up that inner strength in front of an obstacle you need to overcome and gives that extra boost of energy to approach. And always remember the feeling of " Yes, I did it! There is thousands of men and women that didn't have courage to do that, but guess what ? - I DID it! I approached, I tried!" - no matter whether you were successful or not - remember.
This article is entirely devoted to development ofyour unique style- as a primary point in seduction process. There are a lot of factors that influence your success in thepickup game- though strong positive first impression is essential. We accept people that are well dressed and nicely groomed as healthy and wealthy beings. Without even talking to a person we build the first impression basics that are really hard to change or erase. Your style is the definition of your social status - and bySTYLEI don't just mean the way you look, but the way you behave, talk, stand, sit, walk...live... The most successful men and women don't have to approach anyone really - everyone on contrary , have a desire to talk to that shiny objects in the society simply because of the way they hold themselves, talk loud and clear, have a nice straight posture, smiling and enjoying every moment of their lives. Dating and relationshipplays a key role in every individual's life - someone might think money is the key to success , someone would like to have property in the Caribbean - but at some point of our lives , each and every one of us comes to the conclusion that without beingeffective in seduction,meet people you likeor manage aperfect relationshipwith the One, life seems boring and fade. Let's get closer to what we can do in practice. First of all, don't be afraid to spend.Style and sexualityare very liquid investments and will bring a good profit. You start thinking of yourself in a different manner - more confident, more self-oriented and strong. People pay more attention to you when they see you look different (in a good way), well- dressed, relaxed and laid-back person. Develop your style is not hard - it is just a matter of choice. I always recommend taking a good example from the movie character that you think possesses the most of the qualities you want to obtain. Put yourself into his shoes - what would he do in this particular situation, what will he say, how will he be dressed, how will he behave. And ask these questions to yourself. At some point the habit to behave in this role model will gently incorporate into your lifestyle and you will become the person you admire, respect and value - Good luck, experiment and try something New!