Dealing with Death At Home

Posted on by Costa Ware

Dealing with death was the most difficult thing I have ever had to do, in my entire life. I never expected myself to face loss of a loved one; even though I knew very well that death is a part of life. However, I somehow believed I would be an exception and my loved ones would always exist in this world. But death got me too. I was left confused, angry and sad. I had never faced extreme emotions, but when I lost my loved one I found myself in extreme moods. I also had this useless and helpless feeling with me. Once I began to notice a change in myself, I began to make an effort and decided to deal with the loss. Here, I will discuss some of the acts that I did to help myself.

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Initially when I heard about the death, I decided to keep my mind away from thinking about it. I engaged myself in different activities at work or with my friends, anything which prevented me for thinking about the loss, I did. I did this, to strengthen myself emotionally. My mind was trying very hard to control my heart. I knew if I let the bad thoughts take over my emotions, I would end up experiencing an emotional breakdown. Therefore, I diverted my attention on to other aspects because I was not ready for any social interaction and thus stayed busy all day. With the passage of time, I began to realize that I was becoming stronger and accepting the loss. Then I began to seek support and advice from my friends. I often, ended up having hour’s worth of conversations about my inner feelings with my friends. This helped to me lighten my emotional pain. After sharing, I felt more relieved and accepted the loss to a certain extent.

Once I had realized my loss, I began a tribute in the memory of my loved one. I had lost my loved one to cancer, so I arranged a charity concert to support other cancer victims. I never wanted anyone to go through what I did, so I helped raise funds. When I ran a successful tribute, I felt as if I had made a difference for my loved one. I do not feel, helpless and useless anymore. The tribute made me accept death as a process of life. And lastly, I turned to my religion. This helped me answers several questions regarding death and loss. After this, I finally accepted the loss and decided to move with my life. My faith made me realize that death is evitable and it’s a change that we all have to deal with.

This is how I managed my loss; it does not mean that everyone will have to do the above acts to deal with death. Dealing with death for everyone is different and no one way is ever correct. I’ll suggest that we should get help as soon as we feel ourselves slipping away due to a loss, or it can hurt your entire life.

Posted in Random Thoughts | Tagged dealing with death, overcoming death

What We Can Do About Being Unhappy When Dating

Posted on by Costa Ware

When you think of dating, a ton of things could come to mind. From where to take your date, whether you two are compatible and a good match for eachother, to scrutinizing every single small detail and trying to get things right – it’s hard not to see how so many people have such a difficult time finding something that will work for them and their future goals. Fortunately, for many out there that feel hopeless, or have are having trouble coping with situations that involve love and dating, there are things that we can do to change that, depsite how impossible it may seem at first.

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Even if dating causes people to become nervous and worrisome about what will happen in the future, you can actually turn that around and start being happy in no time! One big step to doing this would be, being okay with going on dates no matter what happens as a result. Whether the date goes on to something more serious, or the pair decide that it would be better off if they do not see each other again – you should never take dating as a negative. You can also ask people that are in successful relationships to give you a bit of advice, as well as guide you along the way if you need any help.

One point to focus on in the event of an unsucessful date, is that you were strong enough to actually try and put yourself out there for another person to see who you are, which is all that really matters. Do as much as you can to get you and your life back to where you want it to be. You can also jump back into the dating game whenever you feel you are ready so that you can meet a few nice people! Try to remember that happiness does not always have to come from sources outside of yourself, but it’s also very present within you as well. Know that living in the moment and taking things as they come can be very important to enjoying life.

Posted in Women & Dating Advice | Tagged dating advice, dating tips for men and women, fighting unhappiness, unhappy and dating

Welcome To CensorWare.Net

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Hi,

I’m Costa Ware and this is my blog! Where nothing is censored!

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