- Answering the God questions are the most important pursuits in life.
- Faith is not the opposite of doubt, it is the opposite of fear.
- My wife is my life partner.
- Being a father is the most meaningful work that I will ever do.
- You measure love by the degree to which you are willing to be inconvenienced.
- Forgiveness helps you more than the person you are forgiving.
- Saying “I’m sorry” is the best weapon in any relationship – especially your marriage.
- The Bible is an awesome book of books.
- Dreams happen in your head, life happens out here with everybody.
- If something is worth doing, then it is worth doing right.
- Writing equals thinking. Writing well equals clear thinking. It is the hardest work you will do, and the pursuit of writing well is lifelong.
- Some things you just have to experience to learn.
- God loves more and better than I do.
- Marrying well is a blessing that words cannot describe.
- My emotions can (and will) betray me.
- Being deceived means you don’t realize you are wrong – if you know you are wrong, then that’s just being stupid (or euphemisms like willful or stubborn).
- Having only one word for love hurts us English speakers.
- If I don’t love myself, then I won’t love anyone else very well. It is “love your neighbor the way you love yourself,” which I now think is a warning and not a command. You will love others the same way you love yourself.
- There’s a little arrow on most gas gauges to tell you which side the pump is on.
- Most people don’t care what you think, but they sure will watch what you do.
- Money is a great tool, but a terrible master.
- Financial debt shackles your future to its service.
- Make decisions today based on what you want to be true 10, 20 or 40 years from now.
- What I do every day is more important than what I do every now and then.
- My calendar and my checkbook tell the world what I value.
- Verbs transform sentences. Use them. Adverbs
definitelyclog sentences. Delete them. - There are two products that are for everyone – air and water. One is tasteless, the other one is invisible. Don’t make your products for everyone.
- Simple trumps complex.
- When everyone is going the same way as you, it might be a sign to turn around.
- If three people tell you the same thing, pay attention.
- Crawl, walk, then run is the best approach to business partnerships.
- Always push back in a negotiation (even if you love the offer), otherwise people feel like they got a bad deal.
- If the CEO isn’t preaching the change, then it won’t happen no matter who is telling you it will.
- There is more to life than just what we see.
- Relationships are all we take out of this life.
- Success is taking the next step of obedience.
- Your sins will find you out.
- When you get caught, confess. Hiding makes me a coward (see #37).
- People love stories more than lectures. Learning to tell them well is worth the effort.
- Getting outside of yourself is the only way to engage an audience. The fearless inspire.
- Never let your career outpace your character.
- You are never to old for a significant change in your life.
- The older I get, the less I know.
That cleared my head. Ready for the lessons of year 44. Bring it on.