If you are a single woman over forty, who is still hoping to meet the man of your dreams... If you’re tired of disappointing dates, and feeling like it’s too late or too difficult…STOP WASTING TIME and read on to…
“Discover How This Never-Married Serial Dater…Afraid She’d Be Alone Forever…Learned the Simple Secrets to Finding the Man of Her Dreams…
and Living Happily Ever After!”
Introducing the eBook by dating and relationship expert Bobbi Palmer:
7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40:
Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater
Dear beautiful woman,
Do you ever think that it might be too late for you to discover real love that will nourish you for the rest of your life?
How do you feel in those moments when you let yourself admit you want him…and then realize you have no idea how to find him, attract him, or even love him if you did? Do you feel:
- Sad thinking you will never again enjoy the love and affection of a good man?
- Empty knowing that the truly meaningful part of life has eluded you?
- Frustrated because you’ve tried and tried and nothing seems to work?
- Like a failure who hasn’t been able to figure out what the vast majority of other women have?
- Angry at yourself for waiting so long, and at men for not wanting you or being who you want?
- Weak or needy because strong women like you shouldn’t feel lonely and like she needs a man to be happy?
- Unlovable because no one is picking you?
- Resigned to being alone the rest of your life rather than have one more crappy date?
- Alone even though you have friends and family surrounding you, and because you feel like the only one who can’t find a man?
Listen up when I tell you: YOU ARE NOT ALONE…AND IT IS NOT TOO LATE.
I know you and so many women like you. I was you not very long ago.
You have a great career, a lovely and loyal circle of friends, freedom to do as you please, and you’re surrounded by nice things. Sometimes you even succeed in convincing yourself that it would be okay living the rest of your life without the love of a man. You’ve had to.
But we know the real truth. We know that all you have just isn’t enough. And when you think of sharing the great life you’ve created with someone you love — and who loves you — you know that could take your life to a whole new level of fulfillment and joy.
And you want that.
But you can’t share it…because that man’s not in your life.
What Would Your Life Be Like if You Found a Man Who…
- thinks you are delightful, beautiful, and brilliant
- makes you feel safe and valued
- boasts to his friends about your successes and supports you in all you do
- gives you permission to soften, and to be the real woman that you are
- empowers you to be not just your true self, but be your best self
- loves you so completely that you feel fearless in loving him?
I just finished your ebook and what I need to course correct is there! I am ready to stop playing it so safe and play to win. I love the way you put rejection in perspective and highlighted the importance of taking risks and playing with all your heart without holding back.
I am ready to put my guard down and let the real me be seen. I have moved finding love with a good man from not-on-my-list to my top priority in the last week and it feels right. Diane M.
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It is NOT too late to find a fantastic man. I know…because I have!
What if I told you my story of how I went from being a pretty happy single gal to a truly fulfilled married woman who feels safe and loved every day of her life? And what if I offered you a ton of information and a process that will help you make these shifts, some of which are so subtle, but will allow you to create the space you need to get this man into your life?
Change may not be easy for you, but I have done it as have countless women I have coached. You may need to rethink some of the belief systems that brought you to where you are now and start thinking and acting in some new ways in order to attract this ideal man into your life.
The truth is, though, that this really isn’t as much about changing yourself as it is about being more of who you really are. Sometimes it’s as easy as you just being more YOU.
As it says on the cover, this is a great book for finding meaningful love after 40. I love Bobbi’s “Four Commandments” in each section. They focus the information, and give you specific guidelines to follow. As a psychotherapist in private practice, I know this book will be useful to my clients who are searching for love. I love the way Bobbi uses the readers’ own life experience, showing her how to use the lessons she’s learned already in life to make her dreams come true.
Tina B. Tessina, PhD, “Dr. Romance” psychotherapist and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again (Wiley, NY 2002)
Hey, I know that you’re not a princess, and you’re not looking for a knight on a white horse.
You’re a smart, thoughtful woman looking for a genuine, grown-up man who will bring to the table all of the things that create and support a meaningful, nurturing, grown-up adult relationship.
You see, YOU can summon the power within to create big changes in your romantic life.
YOU really can find the man who will complement and brighten your world even more…
…and have fun doing it!
7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40: Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater is an ebook about wonderful possibilities and exhilarating outcomes.
Here is an excerpt from Chapter 2: It’s Really Not About the Size of Your Thighs:
I’m here to say that you can fulfill your dream. Whatever you call it and whatever shape it takes, wherever you are in your life, you can complete your circle by finding the man of your dreams. And guess what? You are closer than you think. I spent many years learning and growing so I could fulfill my life’s truest wish. I hope you let me share what I’ve learned so you can get closer to fulfilling yours.
Bobbi Palmer, Author of 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40: Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater
After you read my book you will KNOW and BELIEVE:
1. It is NOT too late.
2.All the good men are NOT taken.
3. You DO NOT have to repeat your mistakes of the past.
4. YOU are in control of your success in dating and romance
I wasn’t actively dating because I wasn’t sure at this stage in my life that I would really find a good match. I was a successful career woman with wonderful friends and family…wasn’t that enough?
Bobbi had a wonderful story to tell about how she met her soul mate and helped me see that it could happen for me too. She convinced me to get on-line and start dating. She helped me with my profile and my photos, but mostly she helped me get up the nerve and the confidence to actually do it.
Without Bobbi’s advice and guidance, I wouldn’t have found the wonderful man I’ve been seeing for four years. Bobbi’s expertise on dating and her compassionate interest in helping you achieve your ultimate romantic goal is invaluable. I couldn’t give a higher recommendation. -Hedy S.
Now…here’s the thing my friends told me not to tell you: you already know these things and have these qualities! You see, they think if I tell you this that you’ll decide you don’t need this ebook. But I’ll take that chance because I want you to know that the information I share isn’t earth-shattering and it doesn’t really require monumental life changes…when you have
someone to guide you through it.
The truth is that your wealth of life experiences…the ones that have made you the strong and fantastic woman that you are…have already prepared you to be a successful dater who will make good choices and find a good man to spend your life with.
In my ebook, I show you how to get more in tune with the experiences that make up your true inner self–so you can make some bold shifts and start allowing new possibilities that will direct you to the kind of relationship you are really after!
Here is just SOME of what you will learn in my powerful book:
- My own process (including all the painful mistakes!), as an aid to let you know that “Love After 40″ is a real and fabulous possibility for you
- My 3 epiphanies that changed my life and – once you embrace them – will change yours
- The one thing men REALLY WANT that strong, independent women DON’T GIVE THEM!
- How your self-protection has actually become your biggest enemy
- What I learned from my sadistic therapist, and how grateful I am every day for her torture
- How to happily date and find your special man(special exercises included!)
- Why your intuition isn’t always your best friend
- How your fantastic friendships and family relationships have prepared you perfectly for a meaningful romance
- Why the search for your “soul mate” has more to do with your soul than his
- Why it’s so good that you’re the one with the problem
- Why his impression of you holds little meaning
- How to HAVE FUN while searching for your man (this is the key to your success!)
- How the search for pleasure can lead you completely astray
- Why looking “interested” isn’t the same as looking desperate
- Why even the worst case scenario is an opportunity for positive outcomes (yes, I believe in silver linings)
- News flash: you have ultimate control over your romantic outcomes
And here’s a bonus!
My ebook also includes a section called 17 MORE Things That Will Help You Confidently and Happily Meet Your Mate.
These aren’t your run-of-the-mill “sign up for a pottery class” tips ladies. You’ll find some amazing nuggets of usable wisdom in this chapter!
As you can see, I cover a lot of important ground here. And, did you notice? It’s all about YOU!
It’s about helping you become your best and true self.
It’s about realizing and believing that the qualities you gained from your life experience: loving kindness, self awareness, self respect, wisdom, desire, fortitude, and the ability to love are what you need to start your happy journey on the way to meet your special man and life mate.
Once you start reading it and understand how powerful you are in this process, you will want to continue learning how to apply your fabulous self to finding the love of your life, or at least take pleasure in the search.
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Hey, I Know This Because I’ve Already Been Down Your Road!
I dated for 30 years before I got married to the genuine man of my dreams at 47. 30 years!
Why so long? Because, frankly, I was pretty darn happy — at least that’s what I told myself. I had a wonderful life with everything…but intimacy. I had a successful career that afforded me a great home and nice things; friends who I loved, trusted and enjoyed; total freedom; exciting travel… and the list goes on…
Over those years I met a lot (a lot!) of men; and I met them every way possible. There were countless first dates, and a handful of relationships — mostly short and all eventual duds. There were nice men along the way, but no one who I would have called The One.
There were certainly times when I wondered out loud if I would ever find him, or if he even existed for me. And there were other times I convinced myself that I just didn’t need a man to be happy.
But as everyone around me was finding love, I couldn’t help but wonder what was wrong with me? It seemed that this was the one thing in my life I just couldn’t decipher. I just couldn’t get the man-thing right!
I finally committed to doing what I needed to do to find love. I learned a lot about men, about dating, and particularly about myself. I came to some harsh realizations that I will share with you in this ebook. Your eyes will become open to some pretty mind-blowing facts; facts that may be hard to face at first –as they were for me. But once you face them, and truly embrace them, you’ll be very thankful and very happy.
Today my life is amazing because of my education, experiences, and epiphanies…and the new course I embarked on that led me to my perfect mate for life. To say I am happily married would be an understatement. I am loved completely, and I love him fearlessly and effortlessly. The love is deep and everlasting, and there’s no other feeling like it in the world.
I am so profoundly happy right now that I must share it with you. I coach women every day about how to enjoy their journey on the way to finding sincere, grown-up, lasting loving relationships. I wrote this ebook because I am committed to helping as many women as possible find this kind of happiness. You deserve it. We deserve it.
Here are some success stories from people who have read my ebook:
I’m 60 and have been married twice. I did something very nurturing for myself 6 months ago: I hired Bobbi to help me get past my fears, get into the dating waters, and find my last husband.
Well, I’m having dinner with another bachelor tonight. I have funny & interesting dating stories and some romance, but the best part has been this: What I have learned about myself and men could fill volumes. I learned that I don’t have to change who I am to find Mr. Right, and that I already have the tools I need to be a successful dater. I did need to shift some beliefs and perceptions to even allow the right guy into the arena. And I needed to learn about how men think. (You’d think I’d know this at my age.)
I’m learning every day, but most importantly I’m having fun….that’s the real success!!
So if any of you are serious about finding the right man, or have a friend who is, learn from Bobbi. She is very smart, ALWAYS right (which drives me crazy), and has walked this path and found the love of her life… SHE REALLY KNOWS. Pegi B.
I’d been dating a lot, but unsuccessfully, so I started working with Bobbi. Talking to Bobbi is like talking to a girlfriend who has her act together when it comes to men. She has the insight and empathy that can only come from someone who has been there when it comes to a less-than-successful dating life. Bobbi learned through the school of hard knocks how to understand and ultimately appreciate the opposite sex. She offers tips and techniques for getting dates and what to do once you’re on one. But the icing on the cake is how she urges you to accept and celebrate who you are…warts and all. Stephanie G.
I was a happily single “mature” woman who had given up on dating. Bobbi’s ebook helped me see my limiting opinions about men and dating — and led me to expand and explore the world of dating once more.
I never realized what a different species men are! I am enjoying the journey, and even it doesn’t work out with the man I’m currently dating, I feel positive about the experience and will continue dating until I find that “special one.” Petti V.
what it would be like sharing thoughts,feelings, conversation, and your bed with the man of your dreams every day.
Looking in his eyes and having them look back at you with equal amounts of love, respect, and admiration.
Seeing and being the best you that you can be when you’re with him.
Doing things with him that make you feel like a girl again.
Laughing, loving, growing old together.
Taking care of each other.
to start feeling those feelings for real. And I can help you get there.
For just $29.00 you can start on a path to experiencing the true happiness that perhaps has eluded you all these years.
7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40: Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater will help you begin a new chapter in your life, IF you’re ready to turn the page.
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Here It Is!
Your Guarantee of Overwhelming Satisfaction:
I personally guarantee that this ebook will start new things percolating inside of you so that you can enthusiastically embark on a new quest for the dream man, the one who has also been looking for you!
If you aren’t completely thrilled with this ebook within the first 30 days, for any reason, just let me know and I’ll cheerfully refund every penny. There’s no risk for you here, only the wondrous possibility of finding true love…and having a pretty good time along the way.
Fair enough?
Then let’s start to shape things in a new way, with things you already know but you’ve hidden, suppressed, or kept secret for a very long time.
Let’s create new ways of thinking, and new outcomes, so you can attract the man with whom you can joyfully share a life of deep fulfillment and intimacy.
With love and support. Be good to yourself,
Bobbi Palmer
Dating and Relationship Coach for Smart Women Who Deserve it All
PS — All it takes is some action in the right direction to start things fresh for you, a catalyst, an ember, a glimmer, to get things moving, and it can start today.
PPS — Your other option is to keep telling yourself you’re better off single, keep going out on dates, keep hoping, and keep wondering if you will ever find true love at this stage in your life. You’ve already tried being single and missing out on what real love can bring to your life. Now try this!
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